Tie yourself to me
No one else, no
You're not rid of me, mmm
You're not rid of me

Night and day I breathe
Hah-hah, ay, hey

You're not rid of me
Yeah, you're not rid of me
Yeah, you're not rid of me
Yeah, you're not rid of me

I beg you, my darling
Don't leave me, I'm hurting
(Lick my legs, I'm on fire)
(Lick my legs, of desire)

I'll tie your legs
Keep you against my chest
Oh, you're not rid of me
Yeah, you're not rid of me
I'll make you lick my injuries
I'm gonna twist your head off, see

'Til you say don't you wish you never never met her
Don't you don't you wish you never never met her
Don't you don't you wish you never never met her
Don't you don't you wish you never never met her

I beg you, my darling
Don't leave me, I'm hurting
I've been lonely
Above everything
Above every day
I'm hurting

(Lick my legs I'm on fire)
(Lick my legs of desire)
(Lick my legs I'm on fire)
(Lick my legs of desire)

Yeah, you're not rid of me
Yeah, you're not rid of me
I'll make you lick my injuries
I'm gonna twist your head off, see

'Til you say don't you wish you never never met her
Don't you don't you wish you never never met her
Don't you don't you wish you never never met her
Don't you don't you wish you never never met her
Don't you don't you wish you never never met her
Don't you don't you wish you never never met her
Don't you don't you wish you never never met her
Don't you don't you wish you never never met her
Don't you don't you wish you never never met her
Don't you don't you wish you never never met her
Don't you don't you wish you never never met her
Don't you don't you wish you never never met her
(Lick my legs, I'm on fire)
(Lick my legs, of desire)
(Lick my legs, I'm on fire)
(Lick my legs, of desire)


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  • +3
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    i think it's really more about possession rather than actual love.

    pumkinhedon January 26, 2005   Link
  • +3
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    It's about the mantis. The female mantis, during mating time, bites off the male’s head. Brilliant. PJ is genious.

    angevilleon April 13, 2008   Link
  • +3
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    jesus, I've always wondered about the "twist your head off" line. Of course it refers to a mantis. Thank you, angeville. Though I don't think the song is about the mantis, just uses their behavior as a conceit for a more general comment on the potentially cruel nature of the female sex. Especially in light of the "lick my legs" bit; the legs of a mantis are covered in spines.

    I stress "potentially" cruel nature, because in the animal world, this behavior isn't cruel, it's just nature. But humans have emotions to consider. So to me this song seems to be about women who use this idea that "the female species is deadlier than the male" as an excuse to behave this way. Which is fucked.

    Maybe my favorite Polly Jean song EVER

    artsluton September 08, 2009   Link
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    It’s pretty disheartening how wrong people are about the obvious meanings of so many songs.

    “Rid of Me” is not about “the cruelty of the female sex” (which is sexist, btw, and if it was, it would indeed be pretty fucked). Instead, it’s a fucking awesome song about becoming sexually empowered (overused word, but it applies here) as a woman and a sexual creature - very likely a woman who’s been objectified before, used, hurt, etc. It’s not “about” praying mantises, but it does apply their techniques during sex as a metaphor for making the predator the prey.

    Women are very often seen by men as their sexual prey. In this song, the woman isn’t the prey - the man is. Simple idea, and again, fucking awesome - it isn’t not about women being cruel for no reason. Trust me, we have a lot of reasons to act in this way - the way men often do. It’s about not being weak and just “taking it”.

    That’s clearly what it’s about. Any questions?

    RidOfMe86on October 13, 2018   Link
  • +1
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    What makes this song so profoundly affecting is the almost contradictory parts its made of: the fragile, weak, lonely, pleading up against the possesive, sadistic, torturous and violent. The gap is briged by PJs amaaaaazing vocal performance, she succeds in making this song as psychologicaly complex and disarming as it is. I think that most men that comit abuses to their couples act this way... It's a perfect song. Never get tired of it. So black, so desperate, so true.

    sinkorswimon January 21, 2007   Link
  • +1
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    its about obsession over someone maybe who cheated on her ("don't you wish you had never met her?")

    pandora_ash_avalieon December 28, 2007   Link
  • +1
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    "Don't you wish you'd never met her" is a quote from 'Dirty Blue Gene' by Captain Beefheart. The most accurate lyrics I can find are here: likebeingreadtofromdictionaries.blogspot.com/2009/04/shiny-beast-of-thought.html Not that it seems all that relevant - just thought I'd point it out.

    radioaheadon February 22, 2011   Link
  • +1
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    The chorus frightened me the first time I heard it. In fact it still frightens me a bit.

    Thunder.Rd.on February 15, 2015   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    This is about a relationship where one person has had enough but the other person still loves them and wants them.

    Riot Grrrlon March 25, 2003   Link
  • 0
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    who sings the "lick my legs..." part. it's pretty interesting, 'specially at the end, where it sounds more like a demand.

    pumkinhedon January 26, 2005   Link

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