We stay hard to find
'Cause it's too hard to take it
And we keep that in mind
That we're older and jaded
We can't shake it

Pacific to Eastern we're bordered and hated
So we stay hard to find
'Cause it's too hard to take it
No, we can't fake it


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    This song isn't necessarily about love. It could be about the way it feels to retreat from others when you need time to yourself for self-inflection. Sometimes dealing with reality gets to be too much and you just need to get away from it all. You're jaded and ashamed of not wanting to be around others.

    SkyBlue5232on March 28, 2006   Link
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    beaaaaaautiful.

    anillegiblemesson December 03, 2004   Link
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    it makes so much sense... it sounds like its about love (surprise?) and how after a while we just hide ourselves away because the pain of love/rejection/whatever is too much.. cuz after many failed attempts we get jaded

    how i love this song/band

    pikachu1559on December 22, 2004   Link
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    goooooooooooood song

    californiaglowon February 04, 2005   Link
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    cool

    redandbluejeanson February 24, 2006   Link
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    Beautiful song, yes.

    As for its intended meaning... I think it is about keeping something socially unacceptable a secret, like one's sexuality or something like that. mostly because of the first line in the 2nd verse..'Pacific to Eastern we're bordered and hated'

    but as for its personal meaning to me... I agree with skyblue that 'hiding' could mean retreating from the drama of every day life. Though still that line (Pacific to Eastern we're bordered and hated) is problematic...

    kpyllaon March 28, 2006   Link
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    Song is obviously the best yet from aas...Song is made for snowboarding....

    The previous attempts for the meaning are lame. song is about staying hard to find kuz its to hard to take the shame of ones actions, no need to get too deep, personally i think kpylla may b a touch on the homo side, please do not take offence, i am not judging u...but the actions their relating to are obviously unknown and will stay as such. as for the pacific...... blah blah is simply stating that these actions make them feel like the whole world is agaist it... u dig, peace

    Snapdragon9on December 27, 2006   Link
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    I must say this is one of my all time fav's.

    I looovvveee AAS

    xkayxon April 10, 2007   Link
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    I just downloaded this song, and WOW! I love the simplicity of both the lyrics and the melody. I think Sky Blue is totally right about this being about needing to retreat from others for a while. (Something I can totally relate to) :-) Just an absolutely amazing song.

    trainspotteron July 29, 2007   Link
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    this song is my favorite song ever, and thats a very difficult thing to find...every time i listen to it, i'm reminded why i love it so much.

    leelee87on November 03, 2007   Link

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