Now that I can release my tension
Let me make clear my best intentions
Girls ask, can I define decision?
Boys ask, can I describe their function?

Oh, the boys wanna talk
Would like to talk about those problems
And the girls say they're concerned
That they are
Concerned with decisiveness
And it's a hard logic to follow
And the girls get lost
And the boys say they're concerned
That they are
Concerned with decisiveness

(I wanna talk) I wanna talk as much as I want
(I'm gonna give) I'm gonna give the problem to you
(I wanna talk) I wanna talk as much as I want
(I'm gonna give) I'm gonna give the problem to you

Decide, decide, make up your mind
Decide, decide, I told you what to say
Confuse, confuse, describe what I found
Confuse, confuse, I told you what to say

Oh, the girls still want to talk
Would like to talk about those problems
And the boys say they're concerned
That they are
Concerned with decisiveness
And it's a hard logic, I know
And the girls get lost
And the boys say they're concerned
That they are
Concerned with decisiveness

(I wanna talk) I wanna talk as much as I want
(I'm gonna give) I'm gonna give the problem to you
(I wanna talk) I wanna talk as much as I want
(I'm gonna give) I'm gonna give the problem to you

Decide, decide, make up your mind
Decide, decide, I told you what to say
Confuse, confuse, describe what I found
Confuse, confuse, I told you what to say


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Tentative Decisions Lyrics as written by David Byrne

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  • +2
    Song Meaning

    The "I" in the song is anthropomorphized "sex"

    "Girls ask and I Define decision Boys ask and I Describe their function"

    Girls become defined by their decision to have or not have sex. For example, they're either defined as sluts or they're prudes depending on their decision. ...While boys, however, are expected to have sex..it's pretty much their function.

    "Oh the boys Want to talk Like to to talk about those problems And the girls Say they're concerned That they are Concerned with decisiveness"

    If guys are expected to have sex, girls worry that they guys will judge them based on their decision. "Are they going to think I'm a prude if I decide not to, or are they going to think i'm a slut if I decide to do it?"

    "And it's a Hard Logic I know"

    Basically this whole system, where society pressures boys to have sex and defines girls by their decisions to go or not to go along with it, doesn't make a lot of sense. It's hard logic to follow and just confuses guys and girls.

    "I want to talk I want to talk as much as I want I'm gonna give I'm gonna give the problem to you"

    All this pressure to have sex, as a result of everything in society that talks about it, sets up problems for both boys and girls.

    "Decide, decide Make up your mind Decide, decide I told you what to say Confuse, confuse Describe what I found Confuse, confuse I told you what to say"

    This is where that anthropomorphized "sex" is whispering in the boys' and girls' ears, telling them to decide and make up their mind, but it's actually confusing them further.

    Song makes more sense when you get the lyrics right. Absolutely love it; Talking Heads are genius.

    StarLordon January 18, 2015   Link
  • +1
    General Comment

    I love that kick the bass gives at the end of each verse... As for the song, I don't get the meaning at first glance? What may be the decisions he's talking about? Sex? As for Psycho Killer's companion on the best-of of 77', I'd rather prefer No Compassion, but it's anyone's choice.

    Santiagofon December 24, 2007   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    Great Melody. With Psychokiller the best song on the Talking Heads debutalbum.

    Pitfaceon August 31, 2002   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    This seems like a song about communication between the opposite sexes, and how men and women practically speak two different languages sometimes.

    Demetrius7on October 06, 2009   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    The chorus ("I want to talk as much as I want, I'm gonna give the problem to you") seems to bring about a sort of release. I have no idea what this song is about though... communication problems, I guess, how the two sexes speak to each other. Makes it sound so complicated...

    EnduringChillon March 06, 2013   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    "And they are Concerned with these decisions"

    Should be:

    "And they are Concerned with decisiveness"

    All the way across the song. Also, I hear, "And it's a hard logic, I know", not "it's all". I've checked numerous other sites, and it's all just these lyrics copy/pasted. Can't believe no one has corrected this before.

    BeckonJMon September 01, 2014   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    this is bisexual panic and the pressure from the world to decide one way or the other

    maybekaitlon May 30, 2022   Link
  • -2
    General Comment

    I love that kick the bass gives at the end of each verse... As for the song, I don't get the meaning at first glance What may be the decisions he's talking about? Sex? As for Psycho Killer's companion on the best-of of 77', I'd rather prefer No Compassion, but it's anyone's choice.

    Santiagofon December 24, 2007   Link

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