In regards to the meaning of this song:
Before a live performance on the EP Five Stories Falling, Geoff states “It’s about the last time I went to visit my grandmother in Columbus, and I saw that she was dying and it was the last time I was going to see her. It is about realizing how young you are, but how quickly you can go.”
That’s the thing about Geoff and his sublime poetry, you think it’s about one thing, but really it’s about something entirely different. But the lyrics are still universal and omnipresent, ubiquitous, even. So relatable. That’s one thing I love about this band. I also love their live performances, raw energy and Geoff’s beautiful, imperfectly perfect vocals. His voice soothes my aching soul.
I know you said you're ready, but I'm not ready
See marriage don't change, nothing but your name
Unless it's real love, through the sunshine and the rain
For better or for worse, girl this is not a game
See marriage don't change, nothing but your name
Now I've been trying to make you understand
That I rather be with you and I'm happy I'm you're man
And your moms and your pops I've seen walking down that aisle, asking what's up
'Cause it's been awhile, 'bout seven years now
We've been together baby, but girl I'm still not ready
Take it easy don't push me away, don't want to make a mistake
I want to do thing right and my paper right
Want to be 100% is with you, I want to spend my life
Marriage don't change, nothing but your name
Unless it's real love, through the sunshine and the rain
For better or for worse, girl this is not a game
See marriage don't change, nothing but your name
Marriage don't change, nothing but your name
Unless it's real love, through the joy and through the pain
It's more than a ceremony, more than the wedding ring
A marriage won't change, nothing but your name
Ever since you caught that bouquet at your friends wedding day
I've been under pressure babe (I've been under pressure girl)
Now you window shop for wedding gowns and wedding bands
Pickin' out your bridemaids and the theme song for the reception
I know you love me baby, but girl I'm still not ready
It's so many thing's such you don't know about me
Even though we've been together for so long
We got along, way to go, so girl lets take it slow
Marriage don't change, nothing but your name
Unless it's real love, through the sunshine and the rain
For better or for worse, girl this is not a game
See marriage don't change, nothing but your name
It's not that I can't see myself, a life with you
Girl I ain't going nowhere, lets take our time
And I said something that you just jump in to
And marriage don't change no
Marriage don't change, nothing but your name
Unless it's real love, through the sunshine and the rain
For better or for worse, girl this is not a game
See marriage don't change, nothing but your name
See marriage don't change, nothing but your name
Unless it's real love, trough the sunshine and the rain
For better or for worse, girl this is not a game
See marriage don't change, nothing but your name
See marriage don't change, nothing but your name
Unless it's real love, through the sunshine and the rain
For better or for worse, girl this is not a game
See marriage don't change, nothing but your name
Now I've been trying to make you understand
That I rather be with you and I'm happy I'm you're man
And your moms and your pops I've seen walking down that aisle, asking what's up
'Cause it's been awhile, 'bout seven years now
We've been together baby, but girl I'm still not ready
Take it easy don't push me away, don't want to make a mistake
I want to do thing right and my paper right
Want to be 100% is with you, I want to spend my life
Marriage don't change, nothing but your name
Unless it's real love, through the sunshine and the rain
For better or for worse, girl this is not a game
See marriage don't change, nothing but your name
Marriage don't change, nothing but your name
Unless it's real love, through the joy and through the pain
It's more than a ceremony, more than the wedding ring
A marriage won't change, nothing but your name
Ever since you caught that bouquet at your friends wedding day
I've been under pressure babe (I've been under pressure girl)
Now you window shop for wedding gowns and wedding bands
Pickin' out your bridemaids and the theme song for the reception
I know you love me baby, but girl I'm still not ready
It's so many thing's such you don't know about me
Even though we've been together for so long
We got along, way to go, so girl lets take it slow
Marriage don't change, nothing but your name
Unless it's real love, through the sunshine and the rain
For better or for worse, girl this is not a game
See marriage don't change, nothing but your name
It's not that I can't see myself, a life with you
Girl I ain't going nowhere, lets take our time
And I said something that you just jump in to
And marriage don't change no
Marriage don't change, nothing but your name
Unless it's real love, through the sunshine and the rain
For better or for worse, girl this is not a game
See marriage don't change, nothing but your name
See marriage don't change, nothing but your name
Unless it's real love, trough the sunshine and the rain
For better or for worse, girl this is not a game
See marriage don't change, nothing but your name
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Marriage Lyrics as written by Marques B. Houston Brandon Howard
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