The song lyrics were written by the band Van Halen, as they were asked to write a song for the 1979 movie "Over the Edge" starring Matt Dillon. The movie (and the lyrics, although more obliquely) are about bored, rebellious youth with nothing better to do than get into trouble. If you see the movie, these lyrics will make more sense. It's a great movie if you grew up in the 70s/80s you'll definitely remember some of these characters from your own life. Fun fact, after writing the song, Van Halen decided not to let the movie use it.
I pick up what's left of my broken heart
I pack it all back in the trunk of my car
and follow the white line,
til I'm feelin fine again
I let the rain drown my sorrows tonight
but when I wake up, I let the light
try to convince me,
I'm back on my feet again
It's not about you
I'm finally walkin
I'm singin inside
I can't hear ya talkin
and you can't believe it's true
It's not about you
I do what I can not to turn back now
I've come this far and I know somehow
so I'll keep on lookin til I find me again
It's not about you
I'm finally walkin
I'm singin inside
I can't hear ya talkin
and you can't believe it's true
It's not about you
I'm gonna drive all night
sort through this thing til I make it right
you can't believe it,
can't even believe it's true
it's not about you
it's not about you
It's not about you
I'm finally walkin
I'm singin inside
I can't hear ya talkin
and you can't believe it's true
It's not about you
I'm finally walkin
I'm singin inside
I can't hear ya talkin
and you can't believe it's true
It's not about you
I'm finally walkin
I'm singin inside
I can't hear ya talkin
and you can't believe it's true
It's not about you
It's not about you
and you can't believe it's true
it's not about you
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It's Not About You Lyrics as written by Maureen Ennis Mark Murphy
Lyrics © Society of Composers, Authors and Music Publishers of Canada (SOCAN)
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