Well, in my opinion this song is about being a young & maybe a little naive &/or introverted girl and finding yourself loving a man who is at first very charming, carefree & outgoing, and seems at first to be without limits, as in
"There was a time
you opened up every doorway
you didn't mind if everything
wasn't your way"
then that man starts to gradually become more introverted & shows their more possessive/obsessive side to you as the relationship progresses, even while they keep up the appearance of being carefree & outgoing to everyone else,
"Don't pull away
that goes against what you told me
I look in your eyes
I realize what you've sold me
is love in a vacuum"
so you confront them about the way they're acting and of course they deny it,
"I think you've changed
but you insist that
that's not true"
quite possibly they are an addict of some sort, my guess would be cocaine, &/or showing very obsessive behavior towards you (early on in the video for this song we see the man hanging a picture up, it is a very large portrait of Aimee & it is prominently displayed in his/their apartment for the duration of the song), thus their "love in a vacuum",
"You look so strange, so distant
that you're hardly you
Now I can see
how you have been acting different
You say it's me
but I know
that it isn't
it's love in a vacuum"
but still you are in love with them and don't want to leave them and you know that they are truly in love with you and they don't want you to leave them either, maybe they are convinced you can save them from themself, maybe they are so broken that the possibility of an overdose &/or suicide attempt is very real and you want to get through to them that their behavior not only dangerous but it is also just pissing you off and if they don't wise up they run the risk of loosing you, as in the lines
"You will be lonely
if you leave me alone", so you want to save them but can't get through to them due to the addiction &/or emotional problems they have,
"Love in a vacuum
and that's not enough
love in a vacuum
You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
You will be lonely
if you leave me alone
You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
it's just not enough"
you want them to understand that the love they are giving you is not enough when it is filtered through the vacuum of their drug addiction &/or emotional impairment,
"You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
it's just not enough
and just wait
you will be lonely
Love in a vacuum
Love in a vacuum
and that's not enough
Love in a vacuum".
'Love In A Vacuum' for me is a hauntingly truthful acute argument on the loneliness of obsession and almost inevitable loss of love that follows people who are broken in some way or another; the obsessives, the coke heads, the drunks, addicts or the just-plain-old emotionally broken; a razor sharp, lyrically driven, deceptively poppy, yet ultimately-depressing-in-the-best-way song.
Quintessential Aimee Mann.
bokura no ibasho wa futatsu ni hitotsu dakeshika erabe nai sekai
fukuzatsu ni nari yuku kisoku no naka ni wazukana jiyuu ga arudake
dareka ga misu shita kuuhaku wo ume rukoto ga dekiru toshitara
tobira no mukou no sekai he kyoka naku iku koto ga dekiru kamo shirenai
dare ga saisho niyari hajimeta "geemu" ka wa shiranai keredo
daremo idomu yatsu nanteinaito omotte ita boku no kokoro ni
sasaya kikakerareru koe ni, iwareru mama ni nasuga mama ni
kigatsuitara sutaato chiten ni tata sareteita
boku ga itanda.
atari wo miwataseba boku no ita sekai to nani hitotsu kawa ranai
kono "geemu" no sekai wa hontou ni dareka no "sou" no nakana no ka?
riaru sugi te nanimo shinjirarenaik urai genjitsuteki de
koko kara nukedaseba boku wa jiyuu ni yume wo oi kakerareru
nani ga ruuru na no kamo wakaranai kono "geemu" wo
dou susume ruka mosaku suru boku no kage ni senmei ni ukabi agaru kioku wo
omoidasu kazukazu no "sou" wo tadoru koto de kono "geemu" wa
boku ga hajimeta "geemu" datoiu koto ni kiduku....
me kura mekuko no "geemu" no kuuhaku wo ume reruno wa boku dakede
dekina imonomo dekiru to shinjite imaijou no chikara de ume teikou
tobira wo jiyuu ni hirake rarerunomo boku igai, dare demonai koto mo
seiyaku sareru subete kime tsuketeita
"bokura" janai toiu koto wo...
tashika meru jutsu hasasayaki mise ru "sou" no nakano "sekai" no doko ka ni
yume wo oi kakeru boku wo mitsuke dashite
"kare" to hanaseba nukedaseru
me kurame kukono "sekai" wa boku no "sou" ga miseru sekai
kurikaeshite tsuduku "geemu" wa
rinori no nai kono "sou" no naka no
yume dakara....
fukuzatsu ni nari yuku kisoku no naka ni wazukana jiyuu ga arudake
dareka ga misu shita kuuhaku wo ume rukoto ga dekiru toshitara
tobira no mukou no sekai he kyoka naku iku koto ga dekiru kamo shirenai
dare ga saisho niyari hajimeta "geemu" ka wa shiranai keredo
daremo idomu yatsu nanteinaito omotte ita boku no kokoro ni
sasaya kikakerareru koe ni, iwareru mama ni nasuga mama ni
kigatsuitara sutaato chiten ni tata sareteita
boku ga itanda.
atari wo miwataseba boku no ita sekai to nani hitotsu kawa ranai
kono "geemu" no sekai wa hontou ni dareka no "sou" no nakana no ka?
riaru sugi te nanimo shinjirarenaik urai genjitsuteki de
koko kara nukedaseba boku wa jiyuu ni yume wo oi kakerareru
nani ga ruuru na no kamo wakaranai kono "geemu" wo
dou susume ruka mosaku suru boku no kage ni senmei ni ukabi agaru kioku wo
omoidasu kazukazu no "sou" wo tadoru koto de kono "geemu" wa
boku ga hajimeta "geemu" datoiu koto ni kiduku....
me kura mekuko no "geemu" no kuuhaku wo ume reruno wa boku dakede
dekina imonomo dekiru to shinjite imaijou no chikara de ume teikou
tobira wo jiyuu ni hirake rarerunomo boku igai, dare demonai koto mo
seiyaku sareru subete kime tsuketeita
"bokura" janai toiu koto wo...
tashika meru jutsu hasasayaki mise ru "sou" no nakano "sekai" no doko ka ni
yume wo oi kakeru boku wo mitsuke dashite
"kare" to hanaseba nukedaseru
me kurame kukono "sekai" wa boku no "sou" ga miseru sekai
kurikaeshite tsuduku "geemu" wa
rinori no nai kono "sou" no naka no
yume dakara....
Lyrics submitted by Lichery
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