You, you don't like my hair
You don't like what I wear
I'm trying, trying, you see I'm trying
While you try to change me all the time

You, you say I talk too much
I know it drives you nuts
You tell me you wish I was better, better yeah
You roll your eyes forgetting I'm in the room

You're hurting me now
You take me down and you don't even know it
You think it's a joke
But baby you don't, you don't even notice

You're hurting me now
You take me down and you don't even know it
You think it's a joke
But baby you don't, you don't even notice

You, you say I sing too loud
I want you to be proud
I want you screaming out "that girl is mine"
"I love her, love her," but you've already tuned me out

You, you know these words you say are causing us decay
You feel I am withdrawing, I am running away
You're pushing, you're pushing me

You're hurting me now
You take me down and you don't even know it
You think it's a joke
But baby you don't, you don't even notice

You're hurting me now
You take me down and you don't even know it
You think it's a joke
But baby you don't, you don't even notice

Don't want you to blow it, you're hurting me
I know you don't know it
Don't want you to blow it, you're hurting me
I know you don't know it

Don't want you to blow it, you're hurting me
I know you don't know it
Don't want you to blow it, you're hurting me
I know you don't know it

You're hurting me now
You take me down and you don't even know it
You think it's a joke
But baby you don't, you don't even notice

You're hurting me now
You take me down and you don't even know it
You think it's a joke
But baby you don't, you don't even notice


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    General Comment

    Even though this song is about a relationship. I relate it to the situation with my mom and myself right now. I just told her I'm gay, but she doesn't realize how much she's really hurting me.

    dannykjacksonon February 08, 2011   Link
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    Song Comparison

    Comparing this song to my life... I'm in love with one of my teachers, but of course she doesn't know it and it hurts me so much that she'll never look at me as a person, but only as a student, and she'll never smile to me for anything else than a good mark...

    PoetAndChemiston December 09, 2017   Link
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    General Comment

    As with the other comments, this song is very relatable to a lot of people, including myself.

    CaramelMusicon April 06, 2021   Link

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