You've got your plans to do things right.
I've got my mind it's all made up.
We have our time,
but now it's running out of space.
You know my life is just a speck,
and your heart is all the same,
see I've been staring too long at the screen.
Oh God, my mind is such a mess,
but there's these things I got to do.
you were my friend,
but now you're taking off your clothes.
I tried to look, but close my eyes.
I took a breath and made you mine.
You had your arms all tangled up in the moon.

Whats say,
that night you took away a little more than just my breath.
I swear to God that I was thinking about the summer,
or the words that I wrote on the walls that saved my life.
I don't care if I will ever be the same,
but everything just keeps reminding me of winter.
Like the drive that I took on the night I lost my mind.

So, where's my hope in all of this?
I guess it never did exist.
I wrote those songs,
and took them all to heart.
You know I'm proud of what we did.
I left you naked and apart,
with your thoughts all laid out in your room.
So what if there's something that I missed.
I know you found a way to start.
I see the men that had you tearing up you head.
That's my excuse to make a mark, when you're all tangled up in red.
I had you tricked, but then you grabbed me by the throat.

Whats say,
that night you took away a little more than just my breath.
I swear to God that I was thinking about the summer,
or the words that I wrote on the walls that saved my life.
I don't care if I will ever be the same,
but everything just keeps reminding me of winter.
Like the drive that I took on the night I lost my mind.

I hope you break through all of this.
I hear you tearing up your fists
with all those walls that broke your heart.
I'm oh so sick of everything you wrote.
I'll hold you true to every breath that we spoke of in this room.
So where's your pride, and all of your friends?
I hear you making this a story that we hope will never end.

I hope you break through all of this.
I hear you tearing up your fists
with all those walls that broke your heart.
I'm oh so sick of everything you wrote.
I'll hold you true to every breath that we spoke of in this room.
So where's your pride, and all of your friends?
I hear you making this a story that we hope will never end.

Are these just the nights that we stayed for?
Are these all the lines that could keep us here?[4x]



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    My Interpretation

    Here’s how I interpret it: They are two good friends (boy and girl), and she has plans to go forward with her life and he is still struggling with his purpose and his identity. Although they are friends, they are drifting apart in separate directions. He recognizes that his life is small and almost meaningless. Because she cannot accept that, she pities him. She wishes he could find purpose. She ends up having sex with him, and he gives in although he knows it is not a good idea. She isn’t doing it for the right reasons, and he is confused and reckless: causing him to fall into the act. At first he is ok. Then he realizes the ramifications. Later he is broken up about it. He has mixed feelings about her. He ran away. He is confused and broken, and he finds her almost ignorant and manipulative. He wishes he could take it back and he wishes even more that she would understand him and accept him for who he is. He doesn’t want her to try to change him. She cannot see eye-to-eye with him, and he is frustrated. But after all of it he still cares for her- even though he may not want to He cannot help it. He has mixed feelings, and has a lot of remorse, but in the end- he cares for her and realizes that she has been through a lot of trauma. He realizes that although they may not have mutual understandings, he still cares for her. This is a bittersweet feeling to him. In the end he just wants her to know how he feels about it all and want’s things to go back to normal: even though he knows it can’t. So he’s basically just telling the story and voicing his thoughts in full understanding that it won’t change anything. But it’s a great song!

    funshine23on November 29, 2012   Link
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    General Comment

    wow. this song is amazing. i think its about likeing someone so much and havign sex with them only to realize that maybe its not what you wanted because it didnt mean as much or anything at all to the other person. becoming kind of obsessed with the person because you thoguth you shared something and the other person doesnt think twice about it. at the end i think the end is about him telling the girl that all the problems she had with boys are all because of her own self. he wished he well but realizes he does really want her anymore because of the way she made him feel.

    idk that just my interpretation of it.

    yesyouresarahon May 09, 2007   Link
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    General Comment

    alot of typos in my comment. but i think you get hte point.. sorry :]

    wow. this song is amazing. i think its about likeing someone so much and havign sex with them only to realize that maybe its not what you wanted because it didnt mean as much or anything at all to the other person. becoming kind of obsessed with the person because you thoguth you shared something and the other person doesnt think twice about it. i think the end is about him telling the girl that all the problems she had with boys are all because of her own self. he wishes her well but realizes he doesnt really want her anymore because of the way she made him feel.

    idk that just my interpretation of it.

    yesyouresarahon May 09, 2007   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    this is about sex.

    SMILExxiloveyouon April 15, 2007   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    I agree with you ^. These guys are from Maryland! WOO!

    megg_youknowon June 06, 2007   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    this song is about how the singer had sex with his best friend and guitarists girl friend.

    kdevismyheroon August 15, 2007   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    ^-- don't talk about what you don't know.

    egyptianmuskon August 20, 2007   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    Egyptianmusk, Too bad that IS what the song is about

    Honest to god

    And not only slept with, Lost his virginity to.

    ashleyevidenceon October 07, 2007   Link
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    General Comment

    while that holds some truth, your facts aren't quite straight.

    egyptianmuskon October 10, 2007   Link
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    General Comment

    this to me seems like its about two best friends. a boy and a girl. they have been through a lot together in the past and both remain friends as their lives are changing. one of them doesnt seem to have any idea where they are going with their life and the other is trying to take back past mistakes and do things right for once. they have both seen eachother get their hearts broken and have seen eachother in deep messes. theres so much intensity in the friendship and they both go to each other when they need it. so something happens between them. they have sex. hook up one night. and realize that maybe there were feelings there all along. but because of where theyve been and where they are they cant have anything more together. they talked about it and saw everything from a different perspective. are these just the nights that we stayed for? now ever since that happend theres those few nights when they need eachother. when their feeling the most love for eachother. something happens between them agian.

    Raamloveon January 16, 2008   Link

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