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Dinner at Eight Lyrics

No matter how strong
I'm gonna take you down
With one little stone
I'm gonna break you down
And see what you're worth
What you're really worth to me

Dinner at eight was okay
Before the toast full of gleams
It was great until those old magazines
Got us started up again
Actually it was probably me again

Why is it so
That I've always been the one who must go
That I've always been the one told to flee
When it fact you were the one long ago
Actually in the drifting white snow
You left me

So put up your fists and I'll put up mine
No running away from the scene of the crime
God's chosen a place
Somewhere near the end of the world
Somewhere near the end of our lives

But 'til then no, Daddy, don't be surprised
If I wanna see the tears in your eyes
Then I know it had to be long ago
Actually in the drifting white snow
You loved me

No matter how strong
I'm gonna take you down
With one little stone
I'm gonna break you down
And see what you're worth
What you're really worth to me
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Cover art for Dinner at Eight lyrics by Rufus Wainwright

I don't know about Loudon, but my eyes do fill up every single time I hear this song.
I discovered this song briefly after the day my dad died and my second son was born (yaeh, on the SAME FREAKING DAY), so imagine what a heavy load of father-son meanings it carries for me.

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Cover art for Dinner at Eight lyrics by Rufus Wainwright

I'm surprised no one has commented on this gorgeous song. He wrote it about his father and an argument they got in over a Rolling Stone photo shoot over dinner one night, which led him to thoughts of how he was abandoned by his father earlier in life.

To me, it's probably the most (straightforwardly) honest and personal song he's written so far. It's beautifully written, with the musical climax hitting right at the fighting imagery ("put up your fists/and I'll put up mine"). It's so brutal, yet so loving. One of the defining songs that makes Rufus one of the best new songwriters of the past decade.

Cover art for Dinner at Eight lyrics by Rufus Wainwright

I agree entirely with what you have said.

Maybe the reason for the lack of comments is that there's really nothing more than can be said about this, besides the song itself. Both the meaning and sentiment are clear.

What i find most appealing about this song is what you mentioned about the brutality and lovingness of it. I think it reflects how a lot of relationships can be where there is a lot of passion and a strong bond.

I think this is captured most beautifull in the lines "But 'til then no, Daddy, don't be surprised If I wanna see the tears in your eyes". The fact that rufus says such a cruel thing, and then directs it towards his father using a term that is usually connected with adoration and love is gorgeous.

Cover art for Dinner at Eight lyrics by Rufus Wainwright

i agree i agree also i think:

No matter how strong I'm gonna take you down With one little stone I'm gonna break you down And see what you're worth What you're really worth to me

is the key to the song. Rufus throws hate in order to see how it feels -- if he indeed cares -- if its really worth it...

Cover art for Dinner at Eight lyrics by Rufus Wainwright

correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't this a cover of one of his father's songs?

it's a pretty spiteful cover at that

Cover art for Dinner at Eight lyrics by Rufus Wainwright

Such a musically simple song and yet so friggin powerful...I always thought this was about getting thrust back into normal life after really tense times during the course of any relationship.

Cover art for Dinner at Eight lyrics by Rufus Wainwright

sammi: this isn't a loudon cover, but it was written as a response to a big fight they had. all i have to say is that if i was rufus' dad and i heard this song, i'd be hurting real bad. =( this song breaks my heart.

 
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