Out of personal experience here is the meaning of the song:
He was just out to get some and found a girl willing to give some
She was out to get love and found a guy she thought was willing to give it
They had a child and he being a responsible man thought he would have to marry her but didn't 'love' her. She had the baby and he left.
Being responsible but bitter he paid child support but didn't see the kid growing up (thinking she would use the child to make him hers)
Guilt caught up with him and he realizes the child is the real victim here and it's all her fault (but ultimately his too)
BTW The child turns out to be the biggest blessing in his life
Out of personal experience here is the meaning of the song: He was just out to get some and found a girl willing to give some She was out to get love and found a guy she thought was willing to give it They had a child and he being a responsible man thought he would have to marry her but didn't 'love' her. She had the baby and he left. Being responsible but bitter he paid child support but didn't see the kid growing up (thinking she would use the child to make him hers) Guilt caught up with him and he realizes the child is the real victim here and it's all her fault (but ultimately his too) BTW The child turns out to be the biggest blessing in his life