Wow. I just heard this song last week. My bf played it after we argued about his side chick who he's denying after he already claimed her in our faces under the cover of 'I'm just playing' which is his way of confessing his infidelities and slapping them in my face. Although it was 8 years ago, gloworange's explanation is spot on. I wish more men and women would just chose to be poly and admit it openly and honestly. Then there will be a lot less cheating, lying, and heartbreaking going on to say the least. My bf has no idea how much pain he causes me or how much damage he does to our relationship when he constantly attacks me and plays victim with my suspicion of him cheating. I only confronted him once. Ever. Now he torments me 2-3 times per week with the same mess after I said hey we've discussed this already. You have your story. I have mine. Move on from it. He's holding us back. And then he wonders why I'm not quick to marry him. Boo.
@lovehonestyhonestly it really sounds to me like you need to find a better guy. I am sorry but I have to disagree with your statement of wishing more people would be poly and admit it. More people should just honor a commitment. It's really not that hard for a guy to not cheat. And honestly, if it is, that guy needs some help to deal with his commit issues. It is in human nature to be jealous. Because of this I find it very hard for poly to work. People might say they...
@lovehonestyhonestly it really sounds to me like you need to find a better guy. I am sorry but I have to disagree with your statement of wishing more people would be poly and admit it. More people should just honor a commitment. It's really not that hard for a guy to not cheat. And honestly, if it is, that guy needs some help to deal with his commit issues. It is in human nature to be jealous. Because of this I find it very hard for poly to work. People might say they are fine but it's building on the inside. Good luck
Wow. I just heard this song last week. My bf played it after we argued about his side chick who he's denying after he already claimed her in our faces under the cover of 'I'm just playing' which is his way of confessing his infidelities and slapping them in my face. Although it was 8 years ago, gloworange's explanation is spot on. I wish more men and women would just chose to be poly and admit it openly and honestly. Then there will be a lot less cheating, lying, and heartbreaking going on to say the least. My bf has no idea how much pain he causes me or how much damage he does to our relationship when he constantly attacks me and plays victim with my suspicion of him cheating. I only confronted him once. Ever. Now he torments me 2-3 times per week with the same mess after I said hey we've discussed this already. You have your story. I have mine. Move on from it. He's holding us back. And then he wonders why I'm not quick to marry him. Boo.
@lovehonestyhonestly it really sounds to me like you need to find a better guy. I am sorry but I have to disagree with your statement of wishing more people would be poly and admit it. More people should just honor a commitment. It's really not that hard for a guy to not cheat. And honestly, if it is, that guy needs some help to deal with his commit issues. It is in human nature to be jealous. Because of this I find it very hard for poly to work. People might say they...
@lovehonestyhonestly it really sounds to me like you need to find a better guy. I am sorry but I have to disagree with your statement of wishing more people would be poly and admit it. More people should just honor a commitment. It's really not that hard for a guy to not cheat. And honestly, if it is, that guy needs some help to deal with his commit issues. It is in human nature to be jealous. Because of this I find it very hard for poly to work. People might say they are fine but it's building on the inside. Good luck