Pretty sure the song is about disorder existing in every aspect of life. The metaphor of the relationship is showing how everything, even the best intentions, eventually degrades into a chaotic state. Even though he was trying to help her out by starting a relationship with her, it degrades over time until he can't stand her any more. He becomes angry and frustrated with the very things that give him pleasure.
Pretty sure the song is about disorder existing in every aspect of life. The metaphor of the relationship is showing how everything, even the best intentions, eventually degrades into a chaotic state. Even though he was trying to help her out by starting a relationship with her, it degrades over time until he can't stand her any more. He becomes angry and frustrated with the very things that give him pleasure.