I think that this song is exploring and challenging conventional notions of gender roles in relationships. I think that the narrator in this song is a man who is almost playing the stereotypical, traditional "female" role in the relationship such as analysing the relationship by going to a therapist (if we look at it with the idea that men don't tend to talk openly about their feelings) and by literally playing the woman in their sexual roleplay (dressed me up in women's clothes etc.)
The woman is is performing the typical male role i.e being on top to get sexual gratification, chasing the narrator at the end of the song. With the latter point, she is the one chasing HIM (you moved next door, you cut a hole in the wall) which again seems to be an inversion of conventional and old-fashioned male/female courting. And also the end lyric "you're driving me crazy; when are you coming home" reinforces the idea of the man's passivity; he is the one going crazy and he is the one waiting for the other to come home to him.
I think that this song is exploring and challenging conventional notions of gender roles in relationships. I think that the narrator in this song is a man who is almost playing the stereotypical, traditional "female" role in the relationship such as analysing the relationship by going to a therapist (if we look at it with the idea that men don't tend to talk openly about their feelings) and by literally playing the woman in their sexual roleplay (dressed me up in women's clothes etc.)
The woman is is performing the typical male role i.e being on top to get sexual gratification, chasing the narrator at the end of the song. With the latter point, she is the one chasing HIM (you moved next door, you cut a hole in the wall) which again seems to be an inversion of conventional and old-fashioned male/female courting. And also the end lyric "you're driving me crazy; when are you coming home" reinforces the idea of the man's passivity; he is the one going crazy and he is the one waiting for the other to come home to him.