I don't really like Taylor Swift, but this is a perfect description of the emotionally abusive relationship I was in at nineteen. It's amazing what you see in retrospect (the things that yes, my mother said I was crazy for not seeing).
Literally everything here is on point:
He was my world, and that world would be a completely different place every day. I never knew when something I did would upset him, and when he was upset, it was awful for everyone. My mom & all my friends told me to run, that he'd never change, that I deserved better, but I was convinced that we just needed to get through this "rough spot" (that lasted a year and a half of our two-year relationship) and it would all be fine. Friends of his said this was nothing new to him, that he pulled similar nonsense on every previous girlfriend and many friends (the ones he claimed were crazy and clingy and never knew or understood him like I did).
Every time he would lose control and go psycho on me (We had to call the cops on him multiple times for trying to hurt me or himself) he would apologize and say it would be better, and make vague promises and expect it to all be water under the bridge when he never forgave me for a single thing. I was crazy in love with him, and he was playing mind games.
19 really is too young to go through all that. I definitely feel for her.
I don't really like Taylor Swift, but this is a perfect description of the emotionally abusive relationship I was in at nineteen. It's amazing what you see in retrospect (the things that yes, my mother said I was crazy for not seeing).
Literally everything here is on point:
He was my world, and that world would be a completely different place every day. I never knew when something I did would upset him, and when he was upset, it was awful for everyone. My mom & all my friends told me to run, that he'd never change, that I deserved better, but I was convinced that we just needed to get through this "rough spot" (that lasted a year and a half of our two-year relationship) and it would all be fine. Friends of his said this was nothing new to him, that he pulled similar nonsense on every previous girlfriend and many friends (the ones he claimed were crazy and clingy and never knew or understood him like I did).
Every time he would lose control and go psycho on me (We had to call the cops on him multiple times for trying to hurt me or himself) he would apologize and say it would be better, and make vague promises and expect it to all be water under the bridge when he never forgave me for a single thing. I was crazy in love with him, and he was playing mind games.
19 really is too young to go through all that. I definitely feel for her.