How Lyrics

Lyric discussion by chrisguzman16 

Cover art for How lyrics by Lisa Loeb

I first heard this song on Buffy and then on Dawson’s Creek. It has so much meaning and can be related to different situations.

To me, the song is about having loved someone who didn’t appreciate you at the right time. Later on, when you moved on, that person finally decides to notice you. That’s why she says “I didn’t come this far for you to make it hard on me”.

At the end when she mentions, “Of all the things that you could be, you never could learn how t o be me, and now you want to ask me… how”, means that whoever she’s singing to will never understand her or keep up with her feelings… so eventually he’s left bemused…