That line you quoted is telling women to actually treat themselves as human beings and not objects. Don't allow themselves to be treated as objects. And, in turn, men should not allow the media to decide for them ("conditioned attraction") who is desirable. "humour, opinion, a sense of compassion, creativity and a distaste for fashion" is what he looks for in a woman, and he seems to be trying to remind himself of that at the end of the song.
I'm not sure what's so wrong about a song imploring women to respect themselves and for men to not let outside forces influence who they are attracted to.
That line you quoted is telling women to actually treat themselves as human beings and not objects. Don't allow themselves to be treated as objects. And, in turn, men should not allow the media to decide for them ("conditioned attraction") who is desirable. "humour, opinion, a sense of compassion, creativity and a distaste for fashion" is what he looks for in a woman, and he seems to be trying to remind himself of that at the end of the song.
I'm not sure what's so wrong about a song imploring women to respect themselves and for men to not let outside forces influence who they are attracted to.