This is a good song and I like it, but it kind of makes it seem like guys are the only ones who do this stuff. News flash guys, we girls are just as bad, if not worse and you don't hear any songs playing on the radio where a guy is singing about how badly his girlfriend treats him. They don't make their problems public and whine about them, they deal with them. And while I understand the whole double standards thing, that's not entirely what this song is about. Ciara is complaining about her situation with her guy, not about how women are treated by society. If you want to have a feminist fest, go listen to Christina Aguilera.
This is a good song and I like it, but it kind of makes it seem like guys are the only ones who do this stuff. News flash guys, we girls are just as bad, if not worse and you don't hear any songs playing on the radio where a guy is singing about how badly his girlfriend treats him. They don't make their problems public and whine about them, they deal with them. And while I understand the whole double standards thing, that's not entirely what this song is about. Ciara is complaining about her situation with her guy, not about how women are treated by society. If you want to have a feminist fest, go listen to Christina Aguilera.