Lyric discussion by AliMac22 

Cover art for It's Not About You lyrics by Scouting for Girls

From my own experience, i can really relate to this song. I think its about a guy who is so in love with this girl and she knows it, but shes just playing with him.

Then, when he comes to ask her if she'll go out with him, she rejects him telling him no, and when he asks why, she says (as girls have told me on more than one occasion) "its not about you, its me" so as not to hurt him, yet thos just frustrates him more.