Lyric discussion by selfishisgorgeous 

Cover art for It's Not About You lyrics by Scouting for Girls

i think the line 'moving out of your flat' sugests that its his girlfriend who feels she needs some time and space.

she's saying to him; 'She said it's not about you it's not about you, it's me (2x)

And sometimes it's good and sometimes it's bad but living with you well it's driving me mad and sometimes it's good and sometimes it's bad but living with you well it's becoming a drag'

He tries to make her stay saying; 'I don't know how to love you more how to love you more how to love you more my friend'

Then finaly admits defeat saying; 'I guess we got I guess we got I guess we got nothing to say' He then goes back to trying to change her mind; 'I don't know how to love you more how to love you more how to love you more my friend' but she doesn't change her mind and leaves him.

good song, very sincere