U + Ur Hand Lyrics

Lyric discussion by All Is Dream 

Cover art for U + Ur Hand lyrics by Pink

I think we have to see things from both the male and female perspective here. Fair enough, guys who go out purely to pull and who are generally arrogant, womanising idiots deserve to be knocked back. Fair play to Pink for not falling for the selfish men who do this. But on the other hand, to me this is YET ANOTHER so-called 'Girl Power' song from a sassy female singer, who let's face it is reinforcing the stereotype about men in general, as being chauvinistic pigs. The fact is not all men are like this but the type of emo-loving teenage girl who Pink appeals to mostly will be lapping up these kind of lyrics, and many will take them too casually, perhaps pushing them towards sexism.

Too many rappers these days sing songs that are sexist towards women and too many female singers just sing about the same old garbage; Men hating, sex, and 'girl power.' For those with an open mind about music, who aren't just content with listening to the overplayed, mainstream stuff which the radio force-feeds you, check out the likes of the legendary Kate Bush and Tori Amos for proper, more sophisticated lyrics and a more intelligent and deep view of the male/female problem. Tori Amos herself was raped, and even then her lyrics don't come across as overly-critical towards men. She criticises men as well as women in her songs.

And one final point: I think many guys would agree with me here; Many females seem to have an almost unconscious desire to flirt with guys on a night out. Now if this is going to lead to something that both the guy and the girl want then there's nothing wrong with this at all. However, if it's done purely to 'trick' the guy and boost her ego, then this I'm afraid is pathetic. Some guys go out looking to pull, some don't, and the same applies to women. Let's be honest, many women who go on a night out dressed in next to nothing actually WANT to be pulled. On the other hand some just want the attention and of course some just want to have a good time. The main point here is that you have to see things from different perspectives.

I, I don't know what I say, All Is Dream, I'm speechless. In fact I don't need to say anything coz every syllable of what u've said makes undeniably flawless sense! You've summed up everything BRILLIANTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@All Is Dream

This comment is ten years old, so maybe you grew a brain stem by now but . . .

This is you "Let's look at things from the perspective of a rapist because the rapist didn't think it was wrong!"

Stop making excuses for men who behave badly.

This song is about sexual harassment, dummy. Women have to deal with groping, cat calling, and staring all day, everyday. Pink is basically mocking and insulting men who sexually harass women and think they are entitled to our bodies, space and time, that we dress up for them and exist...

@GetAClue662 my above comment was aimed at you, not @feminist92.

Here it is again:

Thankyou for your reactionary comment.

The Pink song I no longer care about and haven't done so for a long time. I also don't care for your comments and it was pure chance that I checked the email about the notification (it's been a while since I did anything on this site).

I made good points and yet you bang on about me "Making excuses for sexual harassment." You need to maybe subdue your hatred of men or your own biased views for a second and...