I thought of it as not wanting to love because he is afraid of the pain of falling in love. And the falling out of love. He equates love with pain, and therefore trys to avoid it by keeping his relationships purely phsyical. Perhaps he even is being tempted by a specific, irresistable person.
I thought of it as not wanting to love because he is afraid of the pain of falling in love. And the falling out of love. He equates love with pain, and therefore trys to avoid it by keeping his relationships purely phsyical. Perhaps he even is being tempted by a specific, irresistable person.