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i kept talking to myself
i had to get the words out of my head (so i did)
you barely said a thing
you kind of heard me out and then you said (you said)

you're crazy, why do you keep doing this?
everything is fine
then i think i'm crazy, i do this all the time
until i start to think that nothing's even wrong

maybe i am hiding in my own confusion
maybe we're just a picture in my head
maybe what if it could be the way i wish it really was
maybe i don't wanna see it, the way it really is

sometimes your intentions are totally impossible to read
what does that mean?
sometimes even i have no idea what i need
i wish i did

i'm crazy, why do i keep doing this?
everything is fine
then you think i'm crazy, i do this all the time
until i start to think that something's really wrong

maybe i am hiding in my own confusion
maybe we're just a picture in my head
maybe what if it could be the way i wish it really was
maybe i don't wanna see it, the way it really is

looking out my window at the big blue sky
lazy sun is shining and so i run outside
to look for you, i look for you
and then it starts to rain

maybe i am.. is that the way it really is?
maybe we're just... a picture
maybe what if it could be the way i wish it really was
maybe i don't wanna see it, the way it really is

maybe i am hiding in my own confusion
maybe we're just a picture in my head
maybe what if it could be the way i wish it really was
maybe i don't wanna see it, the way it really is

maybe i am hiding in my own confusion
maybe we're just a picture in my head
maybe what if it could be the way i wish it really was
maybe i don't wanna see it

maybe i don't wanna see it
maybe i don't wanna see it
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Cover art for The Way It Really Is lyrics by Lisa Loeb

This is one of her best songs. I mean, maybe you're just hiding and telling yourself something is what it is, when the reality is..you know it's not that at all. This song really speaks to that experience that many of us have at some point or another.

Cover art for The Way It Really Is lyrics by Lisa Loeb

Its about talking to yourself out loud about a relationship and trying to see it from different points of view.

I love the line:

"Maybe we're just a picture in my head"

Maybe her thoughts of the relationship being perfect is all in her head.

Cover art for The Way It Really Is lyrics by Lisa Loeb

i've totally been in this position before.

she's in a relationship and she's unhappy, but on the outside everything looks fine, and the other person doesn't understand why she's not satisfied. she doesn't even understand why she's not satisfied, so she's constantly worrying about it and trying to talk to them about it and just making the problem worse.

she doesn't know what she wants ("sometimes even i have no idea what i need"), so she doesn't know how to tell this person what she needs from them. she just knows she's unhappy and she doesn't know why. so she keeps trying to tell herself that everything is okay when she knows it's really not. then she gets angry and frustrated when the real relationship doesn't match up to the way she thinks it should be.

 
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