Everyone's looking, everyone hides
Everyone's telling everyone lies
We're changing the subject, we're turning away
Away from the heart of it all

You say you are happy
Do you think this is fun?
Well it's only a firefly to the light of the sun
You say this is living, you feel so alive
Well you know everything dies

[Chorus]
Even my wonder, even my fear
Only amount to a couple of tears
There is a rhythm, it's near and it's far
It flows through the heart of us

Welcome to another day
It don't seem that different 'cause nothing has changed
I try to remember, try to remember
When we were just running in place
Reasons for living, never come cheap
But even your best ones can put me to sleep
What I am saying or trying to say
Is that there must be a better way

[Chorus]

It's already in you, it's already there
You may disagree, but I don't really care
Did you ever find out, did you ever find out
What's at the heart of us?
Did you ever find out
Did you ever find out what's at the heart?

Tell me all your wildest dreams
You don't really care, you don't know what they mean
Raiding in the closets, skeleton keys
You know it's easier than you think

[Chorus]

Reasons for living are all really fine,
Leaving me cold thought they're not really mine
Did you ever find out, did you ever find out
What's at the heart of us.

I don't know
I don't know


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Reasons for Living Lyrics as written by Duncan Sheik

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    A nice split view on life in a depressive state, probably talking to someone else he cares about and being depressed because they seem to be settling for something that just isn't fair to him or her....lifestyle? Another man or lover?

    In any case, she seems to admire him for what he feels and believes or him putting up his wonder and fears in comparison probably wouldn't mean much. I mean, I'd like to think the obvious - that it's really progressive and kinda "get back on your feet" type of song based on the third verse. But the music is so morose and somber and he seems to convince me of his pessimism in the first part of the song so well, I'm actually skeptical. In any case, I've used both "reasons for living" lines several times, especially the first one: "Reasons for living never come cheap, but even your best ones can put me to sleep". Meh, I'm just bouncing ideas off here, I don't really know. The song has always meant a lot to me either way.

    T_D_Phoenixon October 26, 2007   Link

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