If I give up on you, I give up on me
If we fight what's true, will we ever be?
Even God himself and the faith I knew
It shouldn't hold me back, shouldn't keep me from you

Tease me by holding out your hand
Then leave me or take me as I am
And live our lives stigmatized, yeah

I can feel the blood rushing though my veins
When I hear your voice, driving me insane
Hour after hour, day after day
Every lonely night that I sit and pray

Tease me by holding out your hand
Then leave me or take me as I am
And live our lives stigmatized, oh, yeah

We live our lives on different sides
But we keep together, you and I
Just live our lives stigmatized

We'll live our lives, we'll take the punches everyday, oh
We'll live our lives, I know we're gonna find our way, yeah

I believe in you even if no one understands
Yeah, I believe in you and I don't really give a damn
Oh, we're stigmatized, yeah

We live our lives on different sides
But we keep together, you and I
We live our lives on different sides

We're gonna live our lives
We gotta live our lives
We're gonna live our lives, yeah, yeah
We're gonna live our lives
We're gonna live our lives, yeah, stigmatized


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    wait...are all the guys in the calling gay??....

    VozDelAlmaon June 14, 2002   Link

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