The song lyrics were written by the band Van Halen, as they were asked to write a song for the 1979 movie "Over the Edge" starring Matt Dillon. The movie (and the lyrics, although more obliquely) are about bored, rebellious youth with nothing better to do than get into trouble. If you see the movie, these lyrics will make more sense. It's a great movie if you grew up in the 70s/80s you'll definitely remember some of these characters from your own life. Fun fact, after writing the song, Van Halen decided not to let the movie use it.
Heard y'all been trying on wedding gowns
I heard y'all bought a house
I almost had you walking down the aisle, but
Almost doesn't count
Nothing's bruised but my ego
Nothing's hurt but my pride
And though it hurts
Baby, I'm happy for you, happy for you
Even if it means
I gotta let you be happy
Happy without me
Happy without me
Remember how we used to lay around
Talked about what we'd name our child
I heard you're ready for a family now
I'm not the one you've settled down with
Nothing's bruised but my ego
Nothing's hurt but my pride
And though it hurts
Baby, I'm happy for you, happy for you
Even if it means
I gotta let you be happy
Happy without me
I guess I should've counted up the cost
But I paid to be the boss
And I was wrong
I should've let you be the man
Be your lady, hold your hand
Always be there, through it all
I stalk to see just what you're up to now
I hope that I'll see you around
Though it hurts
Baby, I'm happy for you, happy for you
Even if it means
I gotta let you be happy
Happy without me
Even though it hurts
That I'm happy for you
Happy for you, even if it means
I gotta let you be
Happy, happy without me
Happy without me
Happy without me
I heard y'all bought a house
I almost had you walking down the aisle, but
Almost doesn't count
Nothing's bruised but my ego
Nothing's hurt but my pride
And though it hurts
Baby, I'm happy for you, happy for you
Even if it means
I gotta let you be happy
Happy without me
Happy without me
Remember how we used to lay around
Talked about what we'd name our child
I heard you're ready for a family now
I'm not the one you've settled down with
Nothing's bruised but my ego
Nothing's hurt but my pride
And though it hurts
Baby, I'm happy for you, happy for you
Even if it means
I gotta let you be happy
Happy without me
I guess I should've counted up the cost
But I paid to be the boss
And I was wrong
I should've let you be the man
Be your lady, hold your hand
Always be there, through it all
I stalk to see just what you're up to now
I hope that I'll see you around
Though it hurts
Baby, I'm happy for you, happy for you
Even if it means
I gotta let you be happy
Happy without me
Even though it hurts
That I'm happy for you
Happy for you, even if it means
I gotta let you be
Happy, happy without me
Happy without me
Happy without me
Lyrics submitted by Mellow_Harsher
Happy Without Me Lyrics as written by Gharah Degeddingseze Frank Brim
Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, SUNDAE SONGS LLC, Peermusic Publishing
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