The song lyrics were written by the band Van Halen, as they were asked to write a song for the 1979 movie "Over the Edge" starring Matt Dillon. The movie (and the lyrics, although more obliquely) are about bored, rebellious youth with nothing better to do than get into trouble. If you see the movie, these lyrics will make more sense. It's a great movie if you grew up in the 70s/80s you'll definitely remember some of these characters from your own life. Fun fact, after writing the song, Van Halen decided not to let the movie use it.
When I hear you stop and laugh out loud
When you're fallin' fast asleep
You're in the middle of a crowd
When you're lyin' close to me
When I hear you softly say my name
When you're high and when you're low
You don't need me to explain
'Cause you already know
When you smile that way
I know that every night and day
That's when I love you, when I need you
When I care about you
That's when I know without a doubt
That I can't live without you
Every day I find another reason
Every season we go through
And every little thing you do
That's when I love you
When you're drivin' in your car
When you dance and sing to the radio
When you're walkin' underneath the stars
Anywhere and everywhere you go
You're dressed up or you're dressed down
When you're talkin' on the phone
With a million people all around
When you're all alone
When you're near, or you're far
You're in my heart no matter where you are
That's when I love you, when I need you
When I care about you
That's when I know without a doubt
That I can't live without you
Every day I find another reason
Every season we go through
And every little thing you do
That's when I love you
When you smile that way
I know that every night and day
That's when I love you, when I need you
When I care about you
That's when I know without a doubt
That I can't live without you
Every day I find another reason
Every season we go through
And every little thing you do
That's when I love you
That's when I love you, when I need you
When I care about you
That's when I know without a doubt
That I can't live without you
Every day I find another reason
Every season we go through
And every little thing you do
That's when I love
That's when I love you
Oh
When you're fallin' fast asleep
You're in the middle of a crowd
When you're lyin' close to me
When I hear you softly say my name
When you're high and when you're low
You don't need me to explain
'Cause you already know
When you smile that way
I know that every night and day
That's when I love you, when I need you
When I care about you
That's when I know without a doubt
That I can't live without you
Every day I find another reason
Every season we go through
And every little thing you do
That's when I love you
When you're drivin' in your car
When you dance and sing to the radio
When you're walkin' underneath the stars
Anywhere and everywhere you go
You're dressed up or you're dressed down
When you're talkin' on the phone
With a million people all around
When you're all alone
When you're near, or you're far
You're in my heart no matter where you are
That's when I love you, when I need you
When I care about you
That's when I know without a doubt
That I can't live without you
Every day I find another reason
Every season we go through
And every little thing you do
That's when I love you
When you smile that way
I know that every night and day
That's when I love you, when I need you
When I care about you
That's when I know without a doubt
That I can't live without you
Every day I find another reason
Every season we go through
And every little thing you do
That's when I love you
That's when I love you, when I need you
When I care about you
That's when I know without a doubt
That I can't live without you
Every day I find another reason
Every season we go through
And every little thing you do
That's when I love
That's when I love you
Oh
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