She finds him by the fire
His clothes have got him dripping from his crimes
He beckons her, "Sweet daughter"
The voice who once avenged her younger life

He's got the voice of a con.
The same one
Who cut down in the name of his god.
Who took on the robe of a judge
Without a license to kill without a cause.

He's not worth it!

He's not worth it!
He's not worth it!

Remember what he did to make you question all the words he said
And from the book-
The same book that's reeling you home after so many years of silence.

And the daughter watches father,
As he sleeps and dreams she brings the knife to light.
'Cause she knows he can't go farther
And he'll never wait to see his daughter cry.

Don't lose control or you will long
To go back to this time and rewrite your thought.
'Cause you're about to choose what's to come.

So ironic-
It's ironic-
It's ironic
That you're contemplating murder while I'm educating you in mercy.
You say you want-
You say you want
The means to believe.
Then don't change who you are
'Cause who you are is who I made you to discover Me.

"The steel marries his skin!"

No, it's not worth it!
It's not worth it!

"Cut him down, I cut him down!"

He didn't have to fall!

It's your fault!
It's your fault!
You lost control!
And now you long to come back and rewrite your thought.
But I won't let you slip away!
Not this time, not this time!
This time you're gonna learn what it means
To receive the very mercy that you denied
When you denied
The means to believe

I keep feeding you the fruit that you need,
But you spit it out to further your doubt

And now he can't go farther
Cause he'll never wait to see his daughter cry.


Lyrics submitted by Crashe, edited by ccook

The Family Ruin song meanings
Add Your Thoughts

5 Comments

sort form View by:
  • +2
    General Comment

    By analyzing the album cover, the symbol.

    "He" refers to as the father, blinded by satan in the name of God.

    He manipulates her daughter to deny God, by bringing in the doubts although the daughter believes in God as she feels "Home".

    The daughter then kills her father, as a punishment for him denying God's mercy.

    ibizalyiaon September 12, 2011   Link
  • +2
    General Comment

    Is it just me or does it seem God is still around at this point? The concept follows that God has simply dissapeared after Satan's fall from The Finisher and his ultimate demise in Endseekers... God says "So long all you children..." These couple lines lead me to believe God is still around, sitting back, and here in this song He speaks up "That you're contemplating murder while I'm educating you in mercy....Cause who you are is who I made you to discover me." I only see God "educating" one in mercy, and one only discovers God or as it's simply put here, "I made you to discover me." Then there's also "I keep feeding you the proof that you need..." God feeding her the proof that she needs?

    Micah said in the interview that this girl has been an athiest her whole life and saw the final battle between God and Satan, and now the gears are turning in her head and she seems to believe her life was wrong... Also her father, a strong believer giving his life to God, has now lost faith due to God's disappearance... Keeping that in mind, I think that this is really still "true" in the sense that it is still part of Revelation. Looking and reading deep into the book of Revelation, and doing some other studying and reading, you'll see that there is a point in time that after the battle between "good and evil" all God's people who followed Him would be in heaven, while Satan is bound to chains in the abyss, but once Satan is released, he will get one last chance and eventually people who called themselves "Christian" and "followers" of God that were false followers will eventually fall. Then there's those that were left behind on earth that either fall to temption, or turn to God... However those that turn to God will have hardened hearts and question many things. I think here God has departed, for now, and the girl was one that was left behind and has now turned to God, and the father was the so called "Christian" that has since fallen from grace...

    I could be far off, but that is one thought I have in mind. Have a couple other thoughts in mind... I'd like to see if Micah continues this story in the next album.

    unresolved777on September 13, 2011   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    So this is my first post here and first attemp at giving an interpretation so if im wrong feel free to correct me. Here it goes...

    Basicaly, in Endseekers, this girl's father stood strong along side god but witnesses god and satan disappear and loses his faith and hope from the abandonment. Then in "The Marriage of Steel and Skin", his daughter is raped and in his pain and anger he seeks revenge and eventualy kills the man who took her innocence. In this song, the daughter realizes her father has lost all control and has taken judgement upon himself. Out of fear and pain, she too loses control and takes his life but falls into regret from the choice shes made but god wants to show her the mercy that she's denied for so long (for she was an aethiest) but she's still in fear and doubt.

    And so thats my interpretation.

    Cesarr468on September 12, 2011   Link
  • 0
    Lyric Correction

    She finds him by the fire, His claws of God are dripping from his crimes, He beckons her, "Sweet Daughter," The voice who once avenged her younger life.

    He's got the voice of a con, The same one who cut down in the name of his god, Who took on the robe of a judge, without a license to kill without cause, He's not worth it.

    He's not worth it, He's not worth it, Remember what he did that made you question all the words he cited, From the book, the same book, That's reeling you home after so many years of silence.

    And the daughter watches father, As he sleeps and dreams, she brings the knife to light. Cause she knows he can't go farther, And he'll never wake to see his daughter cry.

    Don't lose control or you will long, to go back, To this time, And rewrite your thoughts, Cause you're about to choose what you called, So ironic, It's ironic, It's ironic that you're contemplating murder while I'm educating you in mercy, You say you want, You say you want, The means to believe, Then don't change who you are, Cause who you are is how I made you to discover me.

    The steel marries his skin

    No! It's not worth it! It's not worth it!

    I cut him down, I cut him down!

    You didn't have to fall, It's your fault, It's your fault!

    You lost control, And you long to go back and rewrite your thought, But I won't let you slip away, Not this time, Not this time, This time you're gonna learn what it means to recieve, The very mercy, That you denied, When you denied the means to believe, I keep feeding you the fruit that you need, But you spit it out to further your doubt.

    And now he can't go farther, Cause he'll never wake to see his daughter cry.

    SoulScreamon April 17, 2012   Link
  • 0
    General Comment

    I'm probably was off base with this thought. For some reason the lyrics make me think of the movie Mr. Brooks. The daughter coming back into his life and whatnot.

    law187on November 03, 2012   Link

Add your thoughts

Log in now to tell us what you think this song means.

Don’t have an account? Create an account with SongMeanings to post comments, submit lyrics, and more. It’s super easy, we promise!

More Featured Meanings

Album art
Gentle Hour
Yo La Tengo
This song was originally written by a guy called Peter Gutteridge. He was one of the founders of the "Dunedin Sound" a musical scene in the south of New Zealand in the early 80s. From there it was covered by "The Clean" one of the early bands of that scene (he had originally been a member of in it's early days, writing a couple of their best early songs). The Dunedin sound, and the Clean became popular on american college radio in the mid to late 80s. I guess Yo La Tengo heard that version. Great version of a great song,
Album art
I Can't Go To Sleep
Wu-Tang Clan
This song is written as the perspective of the boys in the street, as a whole, and what path they are going to choose as they get older and grow into men. (This is why the music video takes place in an orphanage.) The seen, and unseen collective suffering is imbedded in the boys’ mind, consciously or subconsciously, and is haunting them. Which path will the boys choose? Issac Hayes is the voice of reason, maybe God, the angel on his shoulder, or the voice of his forefathers from beyond the grave who can see the big picture and are pleading with the boys not to continue the violence and pattern of killing their brothers, but to rise above. The most beautiful song and has so many levels. Racism towards African Americans in America would not exist if everyone sat down and listened to this song and understood the history behind the words. The power, fear, pleading in RZA and Ghostface voices are genuine and powerful. Issac Hayes’ strong voice makes the perfect strong father figure, who is possibly from beyond the grave.
Album art
Just A Little Lovin'
Dusty Springfield
I don't think it's necessarily about sex. It's about wanting to start the day with some love and affection. Maybe a warm cuddle. I'm not alone in interpreting it that way! For example: "'Just a Little Lovin’ is a timeless country song originally recorded by Eddy Arnold in 1954. The song, written by Eddie Miller and Jimmy Campbell, explores the delicate nuances of love and showcases Arnold’s emotive vocals. It delves into the universal theme of love and how even the smallest gesture of affection can have a profound impact on our lives." https://oldtimemusic.com/the-meaning-behind-the-song-just-a-little-lovin-by-eddy-arnold/
Album art
Head > Heels
Ed Sheeran
“Head > Heels” is a track that aims to capture what it feels like to experience romance that exceeds expectations. Ed Sheeran dedicates his album outro to a lover who has blessed him with a unique experience that he seeks to describe through the song’s nuanced lyrics.
Album art
Amazing
Ed Sheeran
Ed Sheeran tells a story of unsuccessfully trying to feel “Amazing.” This track is about the being weighed down by emotional stress despite valiant attempts to find some positivity in the situation. This track was written by Ed Sheeran from the perspective of his friend. From the track, we see this person fall deeper into the negative thoughts and slide further down the path of mental torment with every lyric.