Well, in my opinion this song is about being a young & maybe a little naive &/or introverted girl and finding yourself loving a man who is at first very charming, carefree & outgoing, and seems at first to be without limits, as in
"There was a time
you opened up every doorway
you didn't mind if everything
wasn't your way"
then that man starts to gradually become more introverted & shows their more possessive/obsessive side to you as the relationship progresses, even while they keep up the appearance of being carefree & outgoing to everyone else,
"Don't pull away
that goes against what you told me
I look in your eyes
I realize what you've sold me
is love in a vacuum"
so you confront them about the way they're acting and of course they deny it,
"I think you've changed
but you insist that
that's not true"
quite possibly they are an addict of some sort, my guess would be cocaine, &/or showing very obsessive behavior towards you (early on in the video for this song we see the man hanging a picture up, it is a very large portrait of Aimee & it is prominently displayed in his/their apartment for the duration of the song), thus their "love in a vacuum",
"You look so strange, so distant
that you're hardly you
Now I can see
how you have been acting different
You say it's me
but I know
that it isn't
it's love in a vacuum"
but still you are in love with them and don't want to leave them and you know that they are truly in love with you and they don't want you to leave them either, maybe they are convinced you can save them from themself, maybe they are so broken that the possibility of an overdose &/or suicide attempt is very real and you want to get through to them that their behavior not only dangerous but it is also just pissing you off and if they don't wise up they run the risk of loosing you, as in the lines
"You will be lonely
if you leave me alone", so you want to save them but can't get through to them due to the addiction &/or emotional problems they have,
"Love in a vacuum
and that's not enough
love in a vacuum
You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
You will be lonely
if you leave me alone
You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
it's just not enough"
you want them to understand that the love they are giving you is not enough when it is filtered through the vacuum of their drug addiction &/or emotional impairment,
"You will be lonely
you'll be the only one who feels this way
it's just not enough
and just wait
you will be lonely
Love in a vacuum
Love in a vacuum
and that's not enough
Love in a vacuum".
'Love In A Vacuum' for me is a hauntingly truthful acute argument on the loneliness of obsession and almost inevitable loss of love that follows people who are broken in some way or another; the obsessives, the coke heads, the drunks, addicts or the just-plain-old emotionally broken; a razor sharp, lyrically driven, deceptively poppy, yet ultimately-depressing-in-the-best-way song.
Quintessential Aimee Mann.
Time to change has come and gone
Watched your fears become your god
It's your decision
It's your decision
Overwhelmed, you chose to run
Apathetic to the stunned
It's your decision
It's your decision
You feed the fire that burned us all
When you lie
To feel the pain that spurs you on
Black inside
No one plans to take the path that brings you lower
And here you stand before us all and say it's over
It's over
It might seem an afterthought
Yes, it hurts to you know you're bought
It's your decision
It's your decision
You feed the fire that burned us all
When you lie
To feel the pain that spurs you on
Black inside
It's your decision
It's your decision
No one plans to take the path that brings you lower
And here you stand before us all and say it's over
It's over
Watched your fears become your god
It's your decision
It's your decision
Overwhelmed, you chose to run
Apathetic to the stunned
It's your decision
It's your decision
You feed the fire that burned us all
When you lie
To feel the pain that spurs you on
Black inside
No one plans to take the path that brings you lower
And here you stand before us all and say it's over
It's over
It might seem an afterthought
Yes, it hurts to you know you're bought
It's your decision
It's your decision
You feed the fire that burned us all
When you lie
To feel the pain that spurs you on
Black inside
It's your decision
It's your decision
No one plans to take the path that brings you lower
And here you stand before us all and say it's over
It's over
Lyrics submitted by christsizeshoes
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amazing....watch the video on youtube....to me this song explains the results of a life full of selfish choices made knowing they were wrong....it is so easy to get onto the wrong path....we all know the difference between right and wrong, even as small kids....your mom told you NOT to get into the cookie jar, but you did it anyways, looking back at her with that half-smile smerk on your face....this is how it starts....we get older, and the choices laid at our feet can have much greater penalties, yet are still just as tempting as a cookie is to a child....at some point in all of our lives, we made a decision that landed us where we are today....and at some point in all of our lives, choices made have revealed regret....if only we could learn to listen to the little voice in our head pleading to us that we are about to do wrong....think about this the next time you have a chance to cheat, a chance to steal, a chance that could result in pain....if you are somewhere that you feel like you shouldn't be, listen and turn around....you feel this way because the selfish decisions you're making are consuming the possibilty of ever being innocent again....there it is, typed out for you plain as day....no one plans to take the path that brings you lower....do not let your time to change have come and gone....you don't decide the end of you, that is up to Him....but when He says it's over, it's over....my friends, today, it's your decision....1 Corinthians 10:23
This is exactly how I interpret this song, also. I, too, have seen the video. The song makes me sad, but it also kind of gives me hope. We ALL have the choice to either give in to temptation or resist and rise above. I relate to this song on a very personal level. Several months ago, I gave in to a temptation, which led to incredible regret and heartache. All I could do was seek forgiveness, learn from it, and move on. It could've turned out much worse, but it's devastating to realize you've just made the biggest mistake of your life. I certainly hope and pray I never make a bigger one. <br /> I also really appreciated your reference to scripture. As soon as I got done reading your post, I went and looked up the verse. I never would've imagined when I woke up this morning that a comment on an Alice and Chains song would be the thing that led me to my bible today. Thank you for posting. I'd say you hit the nail right on the head with your interpretation. At least, that's what this song means to me....After all, isn't music supposed to be embraced on a personal level? If not, then what's the point?
@JC98SS Oh my goodness!!! HOW TRUE!!!! That's a wonderful comment. This immediately made me think back to a time where I was the happiest in my life. Or at least I thought... I was making a food delivery to a coffee shop in Prophetstown, IL, and my tractor-trailor was parked in the back ally. When I attempted to drop my ramp I noticed that it would have blocked an already open garage door. The man happened to see me when I pulled up for the restaurant's food order. I pulled my truck up a few feet as to not be in his way. And with each trip in and out of my trailer I found myself having a conversation with this man who was working on a car. Evidently, he was a religious man because his every word was in a way that could be described as a man of God. Long after making the delivery I was having good conversation with this man. Before leaving he said that all of our lives are like a line. He then threw the set of keys he had in his hand across the garage floor. All I could see at first was the key chain. I think it was a rabbit's foot, eight ball, or something like that. But yea! He said to picture a long line. "Your life represents that line," he said. "And that each of us starts on one end (the beginning) and we will eventually end at the other. He further went on to say that the easiest way or the most convenient, less harmful way is from point to point. But there are many branches in which to choose from. We all will get there in the end. But how we get there is by our choosing. I've lived long enough to know that I am not proud of all the things that I've done with my life. But life itself has taught me that great lesson. THANKS FOR SHARING!!!
@JC98SS Oh my goodness!!! HOW TRUE!!!! That's a wonderful comment. This immediately made me think back to a time where I was the happiest in my life. Or at least I thought... I was making a food delivery to a coffee shop in Prophetstown, IL, and my tractor-trailor was parked in the back ally. When I attempted to drop my ramp I noticed that it would have blocked an already open garage door. The man happened to see me when I pulled up for the restaurant's food order. I pulled my truck up a few feet as to not be in his way. And with each trip in and out of my trailer I found myself having a conversation with this man who was working on a car. Evidently, he was a religious man because his every word was in a way that could be described as a man of God. Long after making the delivery I was having good conversation with this man. Before leaving he said that all of our lives are like a line. He then threw the set of keys he had in his hand across the garage floor. All I could see at first was the key chain. I think it was a rabbit's foot, eight ball, or something like that. But yea! He said to picture a long line. "Your life represents that line," he said. "And that each of us starts on one end (the beginning) and we will eventually end at the other. He further went on to say that the easiest way or the most convenient, less harmful way is from point to point. But there are many branches in which to choose from. We all will get there in the end. But how we get there is by our choosing. I've lived long enough to know that I am not proud of all the things that I've done with my life. But life itself has taught me that great lesson. THANKS FOR SHARING!!!
@JC98SS Exactly, Love it God Bless!!
@JC98SS I was with you on this until the very end, my friend. You talk about decisions and about listening to that "little voice" we all have inside us. As children we have this voice and we are taught to ignore it in favor of self-interest. I think this is because we learn to expect authority to tell us how to behave. We don't want to listen to what we all know is right when it doesn't directly benefit us. Expecting some vague idea of god, or scripture to dictate that to us IS the mistake. We need to learn to listen to that voice and recognize that voice IS US, not some mystical, supernatural entitiy in control of everything, yet somehow also granting us free will? I'm not trying to start a debate on the existence of god. I'm just saying that we don't need to be told how to behave, or what's right. We all already know, and we need to start holding ourselves accountable, and then each other, on a human level, instead of dividing ourselves by race, color and religion. 1 Corinthians 10:23, taking in context is really great advice, and there's plenty of good advice in the BIble. That said, the beneficial wisdom in ancient scripture is incidental and clearly not written by people who knew the future. Why not take what is good and leave the rest, from ALL scripture, in all religions and keep refining those ideas based on what works and what doesn't instead of clinging to ancient words that no longer apply? So much of scripture isn't followed by believers anyway, which indicates to me we already do this on some level. The problem is when it gets a little scary, or even just uncertain, we fall back on letting other people do our thinking, or just not thinking at all. I would think an all-powerful creator who granted us the ability to think critically and make decisions would want us to think for ourselves and work things out with each other based on what we know works instead of just blindly following... I don't know your beliefs so forgive me if I've made assumptions that are totally wrong. I completely agree with the sentiment and the end result of what you're saying. I'm saying how we get to that result could be a lot more inclusive, if we could just get past the dogma. What do you think?
@JC98SS I appreciate ur interpretation. makes me think tho... taking a cookie from the jar isn't inherently 'wrong.' we are made to feel so many things are wrong or right but in reality it's all neutral. right and wrong is the meaning we assign to it. and if someone is constantly being told what they do is wrong, it messes with ones head.
@JC98SS yes, THANK YOU. This song is in no way about Layne-Jerry would NEVER write this way about Layne as these lyrics are scathing. It is very obviously about Mike Starr- I even read an interview where Jerry declined to say what the song was about because “he’s not in that place anymore.” The interview took place after Mike died, so I’m guessing that’s why. Yet Jerry usually admits to the songs he wrote about Mike and Layne that are more positive (ex-“Black Gives Way to Blue”)
After seeing the video, I thought this was about Layne and Mike Starr. The guys are all dressed in black suits, as for a funeral; the camera follows a girl (whom I think bears a resemblance to Demri) who obviously represents temptation. She walks from room to room showing various acts of debauchery while each of the guys sits or stands by passively. Jerry sits near a table where fat execs dine on human organs and appear not to notice him (corporate greed, the act of "eating the artist alive"), and at the end, the girl who I believe represents Layne's ex digs into a human heart.
However, the lyrics seem to point toward Mike Starr:
"time to change has come and gone, watched your fears become your god" "you fuel the fire that burns us all, when you lie" and "it might seem an afterthought, yes it hurts to know you're bought"
To me, this refers to Mike's drug addiction, his book, and his appearance on Celeb Rehab.
Just my two cents. This is a beautifully haunting song; can't stop listening to it.
@RockChickie I have not seen the video but from the lyrics I think it is very much about Layne and Mike. Perhaps the lyric you speak of is more to Layne though, who pretty much and single handedly 'broke the Chains' so to speak with his addiction and the way he decided to live his life. Though Layne died in 2002, it is written that he really fell into a hole of addiction many years earlier. He last performed with AIC in 1996, and hadn't spoken to any of them for several years before he died. So when I read the line "And here you stand before us all and say it's over" and "It's your decision" I think its ceding control to Layne. It's clearly a multiple layered meaning, its his decision how to live his life, its his decision how to handle his pain/problems, and there was nothing anyone else could do it was his decision and death that led to the AIC breaking up. <br /> <br /> "Nobody plans to take the path that takes you lower" (double meaning, bring you down and also lower into your grave) but the line "here you stand" line is powerful to me because it is not really him, it is him in his death standing there saying its over. Its him in his death, his eternal legacy and his persona and his importance to the band and all that. The band may have wanted to go on and make more music together but it was his decision and everyone else had to go along with it. They gave him the power to decide for them. That's how i read it at first, anyway with my limited understanding of events. <br /> <br /> You could be right about the "fears become your god" part going to Mike. Mike's death was very sad too, and I know less about it though I do recall he was on TV with that counselor from Thelonious Monster and Dr Drew etc. surely there are many parts of this song that goes over my head but my first reading I thought of Layne.
@RockChickie Notably, this comment was made before Mike Starr's death, so it was recognizable as being possibly about him even before then.
I wish people would post the correct lyrics so half the thread wouldn't be spent correcting them.
I'll fix anything that needs fixing as soon as the album hits the shelves...
If you don't think these lyrics are right why don't you suggest alternatives? Everyone would be much better off.
slipknot342 - You didn't know Layne, they did. They have a better perspective on what he did and did not do. I don't think you "get it".
In any case, I don't find these lyrics disrespectful, just honest and sad. As I understand it, they were all as bad as each other with the "addictions" weren't they?? However I think the others tried and managed to clean up, Layne didn't - he was "consciously avoiding changes".
the video also shows them sitting in the room; watching it happen....I think they are showing their sorrow for not stopping it as well.
Just a guess here, but after seeing the video, I came to the conclusion that the vid was about one who was taken in by temptation, and when one is taken into temptation that one can't resist, and therefore gives in to it, it leads one to a place where they are taken advantage of, or 'eaten', if you will. I believe the video corresponds well with the lyrics. But that's just me. :)
I agree with everybody and thought I'd put my intake in. The day my boyfriend and I broke up, I was driving home from school, (I had to leave, because seeing him with another girl was killing me) I heard this song and had to pull over, I was crying so bad. This song is so deep and haunting I love it. I agree with everyone, thought I think it could possibly also be about a breakup? Tell me what you think?
Anyone ever notice how much the guitar riff in this song resembles the one from "Nutshell"?
My favorite song from the new album. The solo sends chills down my spine.
Anyone ever notice the chords and rhythm are strikingly similar to "Polly" by Nirvana?
I read in an interview that Cantrell said it's about "choosing life over death" or something like that
I, personally, think this song is about suicide and self-destructive ways.
In my own opinion, this song is about Layne's deadly addiction. It was his decision to give into the addiction and let it own him til the day he passed away.