[Ben:] The sun is shining, the rain comes in
And i don't know what to do, no...
I don't know where i'm going or where i've been cos my mind is hooked on you.
Words escape me and tears come down and day slowly turns to night
And i think of all we could have been,
I gave up the fight.

[Ben:] And you don't
([All:] you don't),
Understand
([All:] understand),
Girl you make me all i am,
But i'm starting to see, just how hard it can be, on my own
And i'm sorry baby won't you come home?

[Ben:] You said that we'd been defeated
But oh i am so addicted
Your love is all i need to get by.
You told me that you and i would always be true
But you lied
And you're not in love and i don't know why
No, i don't know why

[Paul:] The days around me and years roll on
And i still don't think it's right
([All:] don't think it's right)
And i have so much love to give,
But i gave up the fight.

[Paul:] Now you don't
([All:] you don't),
Understand
([All:] understand),
Girl you made me all i am,
Now i've started to see, just how hard it could be, on my own
And i'm sorry baby won't you come home?

[Ben:] You said that we'd been defeated,
But oh i am so addicted,
Your love is all i need to get by.
You told me that you and i would always be true,
But you lied
And you're not in love and i don't know why.

[Paul:] No i can't make it alone
([Ben:] i don't know why)
And i can't be here without you in my life
And so i ask you, why, you still deny?

[Ben:] And you don't,
Understand,
Girl you made me all i am
But i'm starting to see, just how hard it can be, on my own
And i'm sorry baby won't you come home?

[All:] You said that we'd been defeated,
But oh i am so addicted,
Your love is all i need to get by.
You told me that you and i would always be true,
But you lied
And you're not in love and i don't know why.

[Ben:] No, i don't know why,
Just tell me why,
Please tell me why.


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    i love this song, it sort of cheers me up!

    dariusloveron July 07, 2002   Link

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