Hey there stranger
Do you remember?
You were a part of my life
Early December
Think I remember?
Sentiment cuts like a knife
The seasons are changing
Life's rearranging
Full of could have dones
Would a have beens
It's all your fault
And where've you been
And how times goes
And though I don't even know
How to fill in the spaces
of the love you've erased in my life

Are you where you wanted to be?
Did you get there easily?
Did I make you sacrifice?
Did you make a sharp left
When you should have turned right?
Are you where you wanted to be?
Did you sell off all of your gold
Did you trade it in?
Did you wait for love
Or settle for somebody to hold?

And barely symphonic
But strangely ironic
Moments contained in one glance
Oh how I adored you
But now I'm ignored by you.
No evidence of romance
And now it's vaguely familiar
I think I remember sharing every single intimacy
It doesn't seem so strange to me that we barely entertained
Even the politest of phrases
But sometimes at night
I conjure you up in my mind.

Are you where you wanted to be?
Did you get there easily?
Did I make you sacrifice?
Did you make a sharp left
when you should have turned right?
Are you where you wanted to be?
Did you sell off all of your gold
Did you trade it in?
Did you wait for love
Or settle for somebody to hold.

While I was busy
Perfecting the art
Of deflecting compliments
I took it too far
And I let a ripple run right through my heart
Of battle stations we're building
You and I just grew apart
We grew apart

While I decided
To make everyone else happy
I just put aside
My foolish pride
I guess I denied
My own desire
I was too busy pleasing
To ever be pleased
I forgot how to breathe
Or question anything
Or ask why?
Am I?

Am I where I wanted to be?
Did I get here easily?
Did I make a sacrifice?
Did I take a sharp left
When I should have turned right?
Am I where I wanted to be?
Can I sell off all of my gold?
Can I trade it in?
Will I wait for love
Or settle for somebody to hold.

I'd settle for somebody to hold now

You know that I've been up and I've been down
I've been picked up and spun around
I'd do it all again
If I could just have somebody to hold now
I just need somebody to hold me now
Could somebody hold me now?
I just want somebody to hold me now
I'd do it all again


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Where You Want To Be Lyrics as written by Rick Nowels Darren Hayes

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    This song amazed me from the start. If you hear it, it's so simple and yet so intense at the same time. I think, unlike the first comment, that Darren isn't talking about his partner while saying that she was just "somebody to hold". On the contrary. When I discovered it in 2003 I couldn't listen to it without getting emotional...and that was because I found myself in a period of time alone for the first time in ages, and I just did felt abandoned. I felt like I was nothing to those people who seemed to love me so much. He seemed to be singing to me..."conjure you up in my mind"...thinking every night when you go to bed about that one you've lost) So I believe this song is about changing...watching sadly how you grow more and more apart from those that used to be your beloved ones (a lover, friends)...seeing how you don't know each other anymore, you are just too far apart, physically and emotionally ("do you remember, you were a part of my life": meaning that the person was so important to him once...but he/she seems to have forgotten that)...and you can't go back because you both are already different people with others around you. I think Darren regrets some of his steps in the past, saying that maybe it contributed to ruin that relationship...And he finds himself wondering if it was worth it, since he has not found anyone else and still would give anything to get that relationship back...but that's impossible, and it's only in his head, probably like this song, he must not have said this openly to the person's face. I personally took it very deeply because in a way I felt that I gave almost my all studying these years in college...and it was me who first got apart...and I often find myself wondering if it was the right choice...commiting the best years of my life to it.

    Gabigson August 11, 2005   Link

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