Change is a good thing, especially when we grow, but its kind of hard to want to change when you're going to outgrow some of the loves and memories of your life, isn't it?
It looks like this person's values and perceptions are changing and he is growing. That when he was just deeply hurt, the pain is allowing him to look at things differently. He knows he has to change but he does not want to.
It seems like after every break-up in my relationships, I fall hard. I usually stop caring about myself and the things around me for a time period and then as I crawl out of that hole I get much stronger. So perhaps there is a right way to fall, one that involves a little less pain.
Change is a good thing, especially when we grow, but its kind of hard to want to change when you're going to outgrow some of the loves and memories of your life, isn't it?
It looks like this person's values and perceptions are changing and he is growing. That when he was just deeply hurt, the pain is allowing him to look at things differently. He knows he has to change but he does not want to.
It seems like after every break-up in my relationships, I fall hard. I usually stop caring about myself and the things around me for a time period and then as I crawl out of that hole I get much stronger. So perhaps there is a right way to fall, one that involves a little less pain.