To me, change by deftones means watching someone you had a previous relationship with (if that be a romantic or a friendship) live without you in their life, or just observing how they change. I agree with others meanings on here too, and I can see where you all come from, for context, this meaning is slightly bias as I try to relate it to my own life, I had this one girl I was friends with (I had a “crush” on her at the time) and we were friends for a while before she stopped being friends with me, from there I had just seen how she changed, and how I realized I wasn't a part of her life anymore, especially when you liked that person, it can be harder to accept. Hope it helps explain!
To me, change by deftones means watching someone you had a previous relationship with (if that be a romantic or a friendship) live without you in their life, or just observing how they change. I agree with others meanings on here too, and I can see where you all come from, for context, this meaning is slightly bias as I try to relate it to my own life, I had this one girl I was friends with (I had a “crush” on her at the time) and we were friends for a while before she stopped being friends with me, from there I had just seen how she changed, and how I realized I wasn't a part of her life anymore, especially when you liked that person, it can be harder to accept. Hope it helps explain!