To me, this song has layers. The song seems to be saying that the woman doesn't know what she wants which is why the man doesn't know how to please her. But I think it really means that the man uses that as an excuse for not understanding her.
A man I like who shared his playlist with me (including this song) is a man who seems extremely unemotionally expressive. He's an older bachelor and I suspect has not had much experience with women. But to be honest, I think it's not because the women didn't know what they wanted. It's because he didn't know how to give it. We women don't want to be bossy or tell the guy what to do with emotions, but we need affection in words. We know that. It's not that we don't know that. We just don't want to have to tell you guys. We figure guys would already show affection if they really cared...
To me, this song has layers. The song seems to be saying that the woman doesn't know what she wants which is why the man doesn't know how to please her. But I think it really means that the man uses that as an excuse for not understanding her.
A man I like who shared his playlist with me (including this song) is a man who seems extremely unemotionally expressive. He's an older bachelor and I suspect has not had much experience with women. But to be honest, I think it's not because the women didn't know what they wanted. It's because he didn't know how to give it. We women don't want to be bossy or tell the guy what to do with emotions, but we need affection in words. We know that. It's not that we don't know that. We just don't want to have to tell you guys. We figure guys would already show affection if they really cared...