A complete consumption of self by ego. Feeling as if your own self-loathing excuses the hurt you inflict on others.
His discovery about their relationship is that he is willing to use physical power, her discovery is his lack of backbone. Her's is something he loathes about himself, wishes he had more control over his emotions as if his emotional insecurity/immaturity is an excuse for abuse and holding a physical power.
His cold discovery is something he will willingly exploit, her discovery is a flaw he is unwilling to change.
A complete consumption of self by ego. Feeling as if your own self-loathing excuses the hurt you inflict on others. His discovery about their relationship is that he is willing to use physical power, her discovery is his lack of backbone. Her's is something he loathes about himself, wishes he had more control over his emotions as if his emotional insecurity/immaturity is an excuse for abuse and holding a physical power.
His cold discovery is something he will willingly exploit, her discovery is a flaw he is unwilling to change.