The Family and the Fishing Net Lyrics

Lyric discussion by beren14 

Cover art for The Family and the Fishing Net lyrics by Peter Gabriel

I have always kind of thought that this was Peter Gabriel's attempt to show us how easy it is for someone to look at another cultures rituals and twist them into a description that is scary. He points to one of our (western culture) very exciting and enjoyable rituals of a wedding, but takes the perspective of someone who doesn't understand and describes it in terms that cause fear for the listener.

a couple examples that seem pretty clear to me: Vows of sacrifice - the actual vows of the bride and groom headless chickens - the meal prepared for the celebration afterward Dance in circles - the dancing that happens at the reception

and the biggest one...the cutting of the cake:

Silence falls the guillotine All the doors are shut Nervous hands grip tight the knife In the darkness, till the cake is cut Passed around, in little pieces

My Opinion

@beren14 to add to this, here are some guesses for parts I can't clearly understand because of his poetry, but I am guessing:

a description of the bride getting ready for the ceremony: Suffocated by mirrors, stained by dreams Her honey belly pulls the seams Curves are stiff upon the hinge Pale zeros tinge the tiger skin

a description of the the mother of the bride or groom who will be living alone after the son or daughter move on to their own home: Even as the soft skins tingle They mingle with the homeless mother Who loves the day but lives another That...