He kept hurting me and everyone around me. Nothing seemed to ever come back around. Karma never happened. I finally left him... He remarried and started abusing his next wife.
"You can laugh at me when it misses you "
The few times I tried to defend myself, it would ricochet back on to me. I take this quite literally. The sociopath won and he haunts me forever.
@MelanieRose I am married to a narcissist. Ricochet hits me in exactly the same way. Even when I am provably right, the accusation is always turned around on me.
'Running twice as fast to stay in the same place' - Trying to stay one step ahead and second guess my every move, for fear of offending/angering her.
'Can't catch my Breath 'til the end of the day' - My only peace is when she is asleep and I can relax.
@MelanieRose I am married to a narcissist. Ricochet hits me in exactly the same way. Even when I am provably right, the accusation is always turned around on me.
'Running twice as fast to stay in the same place' - Trying to stay one step ahead and second guess my every move, for fear of offending/angering her.
'Can't catch my Breath 'til the end of the day' - My only peace is when she is asleep and I can relax.
'It's always funny until someone get's hurt - and then it's just hilarious!' - great Bill Hicks quote, but...
'It's always funny until someone get's hurt - and then it's just hilarious!' - great Bill Hicks quote, but this is the narcs mantra...abuse for their amusement, and if they can really destroy you, job done.
Every line in this speaks to me of my relationship - I know songs can have many meanings,but i've never heard a more accurate account of an abusive (narc/sociopathic) partner,
I was married to a sociopath.
He kept hurting me and everyone around me. Nothing seemed to ever come back around. Karma never happened. I finally left him... He remarried and started abusing his next wife.
"You can laugh at me when it misses you "
The few times I tried to defend myself, it would ricochet back on to me. I take this quite literally. The sociopath won and he haunts me forever.
@MelanieRose I know that feel.
@MelanieRose I know that feel.
Just know if you're still alive and breathing, you still won that war. Maybe not that one particular battle, but the war.
Just know if you're still alive and breathing, you still won that war. Maybe not that one particular battle, but the war.
@MelanieRose I am married to a narcissist. Ricochet hits me in exactly the same way. Even when I am provably right, the accusation is always turned around on me. 'Running twice as fast to stay in the same place' - Trying to stay one step ahead and second guess my every move, for fear of offending/angering her. 'Can't catch my Breath 'til the end of the day' - My only peace is when she is asleep and I can relax.
@MelanieRose I am married to a narcissist. Ricochet hits me in exactly the same way. Even when I am provably right, the accusation is always turned around on me. 'Running twice as fast to stay in the same place' - Trying to stay one step ahead and second guess my every move, for fear of offending/angering her. 'Can't catch my Breath 'til the end of the day' - My only peace is when she is asleep and I can relax.
'It's always funny until someone get's hurt - and then it's just hilarious!' - great Bill Hicks quote, but...
'It's always funny until someone get's hurt - and then it's just hilarious!' - great Bill Hicks quote, but this is the narcs mantra...abuse for their amusement, and if they can really destroy you, job done.
Every line in this speaks to me of my relationship - I know songs can have many meanings,but i've never heard a more accurate account of an abusive (narc/sociopathic) partner,
TL:DR I agree with you completely.