Not The Girl You Think You Are Lyrics

Lyric discussion by delia17601 

Cover art for Not The Girl You Think You Are lyrics by Crowded House

Is he saying the girl is being duped, not necessarily by the man but by the fact she is living a lie of some sort, convincing herself that she is her true self in a relationship not entirely right for her. Maybe she pretends to be in love, but really isn't.

@delia17601... pretend is not the right word, more thinks she is in love.