Another about sexual infidelity. He's saying just believe what I say without question or you will be hurt and I love you and want you to stay. He's managed to separate his love from his lust and believes that if he can pursue his urges without question, they'll be happy. First thing though is believe the lie, it's the only way we can stay together. It's what you don't know wont hurt you or ignorance is bliss, it's a way to have his cake and eat it too. Because he needs that thrill and lying about it is his way of protecting her from his shadow side.
Another about sexual infidelity. He's saying just believe what I say without question or you will be hurt and I love you and want you to stay. He's managed to separate his love from his lust and believes that if he can pursue his urges without question, they'll be happy. First thing though is believe the lie, it's the only way we can stay together. It's what you don't know wont hurt you or ignorance is bliss, it's a way to have his cake and eat it too. Because he needs that thrill and lying about it is his way of protecting her from his shadow side.