Describes my feelings around my "it's complicated".
We are family friends, which gives us pause. If things end after they get serious, we'll remain in each other's lives to some capacity no matter what. Add to it that I'm relationship fluid bi and trans/culturally queer and she's monogamous and culturally cishet. She's generally supportive of 2LGBTQA+ people but she never expected to fall for a queer trans guy. I never expected to fall fora cishet woman. So it's all pretty complicated, but so far, super fun too :D
Only thing is I hope she doesn't consider that I'm holding her hostage in anyway. But she hasn't been dating anyone else since whatever it is we have started so... I think she's fallen harder than she's admitting to herself. I hope she maintains faith in exploring how we can make each other happy, grow together and separately as free people.
Describes my feelings around my "it's complicated".
We are family friends, which gives us pause. If things end after they get serious, we'll remain in each other's lives to some capacity no matter what. Add to it that I'm relationship fluid bi and trans/culturally queer and she's monogamous and culturally cishet. She's generally supportive of 2LGBTQA+ people but she never expected to fall for a queer trans guy. I never expected to fall fora cishet woman. So it's all pretty complicated, but so far, super fun too :D
Only thing is I hope she doesn't consider that I'm holding her hostage in anyway. But she hasn't been dating anyone else since whatever it is we have started so... I think she's fallen harder than she's admitting to herself. I hope she maintains faith in exploring how we can make each other happy, grow together and separately as free people.