Lyric discussion by Billy Pilgrim, unstuck in time 

I think this song is about a man who is in love with a woman who is already in a relationship. When he says "I could bring some romance without any scandal", I feel like this means she is the girlfriend of someone close to him and that being with her and/or admitting his feelings could cause a lot of trouble for them. Despite this, he still loves her and watches her from afar, wishing he could be with her in even the most mundane moments of her life (moments we tend to take for granted once we're in a long-term relationship with someone, such as watching them do the dishes and undress for bed). I think that she has some feelings for him too and that he's worried if he actually gets to be with her that the magical feelings they have for each other will fade, as it sometimes does once we're in a relationship with someone. Even though he knows he shouldn't have these feelings towards her, he feels himself being drawn to her but he feels guilty knowing he could take her away from someone she actually does care about. Whether he should be honest with her about his feelings is a constant internal debate for him for this reason. In the end, he decides to write her a letter to let her know how he feels. He ends it with "I love you, I'm sorry", because he knows now that it's officially out in the open, she'll have to choose between him and the person she's with and he feels bad for putting her in that position.

@Billy Pilgrim, unstuck in time I think everyone reads their personal experiences into music. To me, the lyrics to this song tell the story of a man who has a history of messing up his relationships and is terrified of messing up the next one. There's a sense that he wants to be exactly what the person he's in love with needs at any given time - but then wants her to be able to put him down before he can do anything to destroy their relationship. So he wants to be able to provide romance when she wants it,...

@Billy Pilgrim, unstuck in time I think everyone reads their personal experiences into music. To me, the lyrics to this song tell the story of a man who has a history of messing up his relationships and is terrified of messing up the next one. There's a sense that he wants to be exactly what the person he's in love with needs at any given time - but then wants her to be able to put him down before he can do anything to destroy their relationship. So he wants to be able to provide romance when she wants it,...