Lyric discussion by ncc74656m 

Cover art for Life Is Sweet lyrics by Natalie Merchant

"Oh, your daddy, he's the iron man, a battleship wrecked on dry land."

The older I get, the more and more I understand some of my favourite music, and I find new meanings in it.

I know many of us hold an image of our dads, especially when we're little, a projection of power, majesty, integrity, something unimpeachable. This verse has always held a lot of meaning for me in that regard, but as I get older, I start to see the latter half of it more and more.

The verse is about that image we hold of him, the person we can hold on to when things are tough, and hide behind when we're scared, but also how as time goes on, we come to see the old warrior that has outlived its purpose, a relic of another era.

I've certainly felt that way for a while when I talk to my Dad, and I find out new things about him, like how he's a Trump supporter now, abandoning the reason and principle he once seemed to hold to in favor of that old time when maybe he saw himself as something so much more, too.

Of course, I'll never forget Natalie's caution in this song, either, that life is short, and to be thankful for what we've got.

Thanks, Natalie, for being one of my absolute favorite artists, and for helping me to see so much in life and express the feelings I always had difficulty in doing.