this song is a rare look into the mind and heart of the person doing the breaking up, in stead of the one being broken. although, the singer is clearly broken by her feelings and torn because although she is not in love, she does care for the person, thus "it just breaks my heart" - it offers some insight into why some people do what they do, and hopefully stands as an example for others to follow, in regards to them not staying in a relationship if they are not in love. it's better to break it off while the relationship is new than to go years down the line and resent each other, because that never ends well. the singer is not leaving the person because she doesn't care for him/her, but because she does.
this song is a rare look into the mind and heart of the person doing the breaking up, in stead of the one being broken. although, the singer is clearly broken by her feelings and torn because although she is not in love, she does care for the person, thus "it just breaks my heart" - it offers some insight into why some people do what they do, and hopefully stands as an example for others to follow, in regards to them not staying in a relationship if they are not in love. it's better to break it off while the relationship is new than to go years down the line and resent each other, because that never ends well. the singer is not leaving the person because she doesn't care for him/her, but because she does.