How Could You Want Him (When You Know You Could Have Me) Lyrics

Lyric discussion by SirenAsunder 

Cover art for How Could You Want Him (When You Know You Could Have Me) lyrics by Spin Doctors

A universal theme: I'd SWEAR you were meant to be with me. Why on earth are you with that person instead?

I really love all the religious imagery woven into the lyrics -- angels, seraphim, cherubim, St. Christopher. It almost implies a spiritual connection between the narrator and the object of his affection -- one that he doesn't think she shares with her actual partner.

There are a million torch songs with a smarmy martyr complex, a la "I want my beloved to be happy." There are a million worse ones, whining "How come you only want jerks when I'm such a Nice Guy?" This one actually strikes the balance somehow, and lets us believe that there's some actual love lost -- that this broken heart is actually worth regretting.

My Interpretation