Before It Breaks Lyrics

Lyric discussion by Jenezzy 

Cover art for Before It Breaks lyrics by Brandi Carlile

Didn't know whether to choose "my interpretation" or "song meaning" since this is my interpretation of the song's meaning.

Seems to me that she's asking a lover or someone she loves to just make a decision about a possible long-distance relationship (and/or to tell her what the decision is instead of worrying about hurting her feelings). I'm drawing this conclusion from the contrasting lines:

Say it's over, say I'm dreaming (tell me whether the relationship is over or whether I'm worrying over nothing) Say you'll wait, say you won't (tell me whether relationship will continue even when we're apart or whether it will end) Say you love me, say you don't (tell me whether you love me or not) I can make my own mistakes (stop worrying about hurting me) Let it bend before it breaks (we can redefine the relationship before it's too late)

My Interpretation