Like The Way I Do Lyrics

Lyric discussion by ICUP32 

Cover art for Like The Way I Do lyrics by Melissa Etheridge

I think that she is saying in the verses that the person that she is with wants a non-monogamous relationship and has a desire/crush on or for someone else and is basically asking her what this other person can give her what she herself can't and also accusing her of not putting enough effort into making the relationship work "you found out to love me you have to climb some fences"

My Interpretation

I just wanted to add that there is no other woman who would love her like the singer does.