I really think the song is about dealing with feeling feminist burnout while also dealing with the expectations that come with being a woman. In the line "so go tell your friends I'm still a feminist, but I won't be coming to your benefit" it seems like she's saying to some critical (male) person, 'yeah, I believe in feminism, but you're an ass, so fuck you and have a nice day,' but that's just my opinion.
I really think the song is about dealing with feeling feminist burnout while also dealing with the expectations that come with being a woman. In the line "so go tell your friends I'm still a feminist, but I won't be coming to your benefit" it seems like she's saying to some critical (male) person, 'yeah, I believe in feminism, but you're an ass, so fuck you and have a nice day,' but that's just my opinion.