This sounds very much like the type of struggle someone with borderline personality would go through. People who weren't able to develop a sense of consistent emotional attachment as children, grow up and tend to have issues with their sense of self and emotional attachment. As a result they have very tumultuous adult relationships where, as soon as they feel incredibly close to someone, they start to fear the person will leave them and instead close their hearts up to avoid future pain. Even if their lover has consistently shown that he or she wants to be there, the sufferer will push because of that fear. Usually its a self-fulfilling prophecy, and when the significant other finally is cut out of the sufferer's life (often against the lover's will), her suspicions of eventual abandonment are concerned and she is overcome with guilt and her self esteem is hurt. It is a very dark cycle, but a cycle that can be reversed. I feel for anyone involved in this cycle.
Seems like this song is about that cycle. Sad, but know that people do recover from borderline attachment issues :0)
This sounds very much like the type of struggle someone with borderline personality would go through. People who weren't able to develop a sense of consistent emotional attachment as children, grow up and tend to have issues with their sense of self and emotional attachment. As a result they have very tumultuous adult relationships where, as soon as they feel incredibly close to someone, they start to fear the person will leave them and instead close their hearts up to avoid future pain. Even if their lover has consistently shown that he or she wants to be there, the sufferer will push because of that fear. Usually its a self-fulfilling prophecy, and when the significant other finally is cut out of the sufferer's life (often against the lover's will), her suspicions of eventual abandonment are concerned and she is overcome with guilt and her self esteem is hurt. It is a very dark cycle, but a cycle that can be reversed. I feel for anyone involved in this cycle.
Seems like this song is about that cycle. Sad, but know that people do recover from borderline attachment issues :0)
i suffer from BPD so suff like this i can relate to... i kwn they say admitting it is the first step but its never that simple
i suffer from BPD so suff like this i can relate to... i kwn they say admitting it is the first step but its never that simple