Interesting song, but I don't believe people are "bi." And that's not a judgment. Orientation is set at birth. Just because one chooses to sleep with whomever doesn't mean they are oriented both ways. They may like the excitement of going against the norm; they may be sexually confused due to abuse; they may simply be drunk at the time; they may be extremely lonely; or they may be trying to get back at someone (just examples). I have met many people over the decades who classified themselves as "bi," and not one (not one) was without a rough past...emotional, sexual, physical abuse, alcoholism on the part of the parent, abandonment by a parent, etc. To me, that says plenty about those who sleep with both genders. Want to know which sex a man or woman is oriented to? Just watch her/his eyes.
Your anecdotal evidence means nothing and no one cares whether or not you think bisexuality exists. You have no authority to tell someone their own sexual orientation, and the fact that you think you do is bothersome. And if you were to go into your (totally uninvited) opinion on the existence of bisexuality to a real bisexual, it would be incredibly hurtful.
Your anecdotal evidence means nothing and no one cares whether or not you think bisexuality exists. You have no authority to tell someone their own sexual orientation, and the fact that you think you do is bothersome. And if you were to go into your (totally uninvited) opinion on the existence of bisexuality to a real bisexual, it would be incredibly hurtful.
@freetobeme Um. You don't simply sleep with someone because your drunk. You dont' turn gay drunk or sober. You are born how you are and you've hid it behind social anxiety and the drunkness makes you feel better about it and not care.
@freetobeme Um. You don't simply sleep with someone because your drunk. You dont' turn gay drunk or sober. You are born how you are and you've hid it behind social anxiety and the drunkness makes you feel better about it and not care.
Interesting song, but I don't believe people are "bi." And that's not a judgment. Orientation is set at birth. Just because one chooses to sleep with whomever doesn't mean they are oriented both ways. They may like the excitement of going against the norm; they may be sexually confused due to abuse; they may simply be drunk at the time; they may be extremely lonely; or they may be trying to get back at someone (just examples). I have met many people over the decades who classified themselves as "bi," and not one (not one) was without a rough past...emotional, sexual, physical abuse, alcoholism on the part of the parent, abandonment by a parent, etc. To me, that says plenty about those who sleep with both genders. Want to know which sex a man or woman is oriented to? Just watch her/his eyes.
Again, not a judgment. Who somoene sleeps with is none of my business. It's between that person and God (for those who believe in God).
Again, not a judgment. Who somoene sleeps with is none of my business. It's between that person and God (for those who believe in God).
Your anecdotal evidence means nothing and no one cares whether or not you think bisexuality exists. You have no authority to tell someone their own sexual orientation, and the fact that you think you do is bothersome. And if you were to go into your (totally uninvited) opinion on the existence of bisexuality to a real bisexual, it would be incredibly hurtful.
Your anecdotal evidence means nothing and no one cares whether or not you think bisexuality exists. You have no authority to tell someone their own sexual orientation, and the fact that you think you do is bothersome. And if you were to go into your (totally uninvited) opinion on the existence of bisexuality to a real bisexual, it would be incredibly hurtful.
@freetobeme Um. You don't simply sleep with someone because your drunk. You dont' turn gay drunk or sober. You are born how you are and you've hid it behind social anxiety and the drunkness makes you feel better about it and not care.
@freetobeme Um. You don't simply sleep with someone because your drunk. You dont' turn gay drunk or sober. You are born how you are and you've hid it behind social anxiety and the drunkness makes you feel better about it and not care.