Ofcourse it's personal for everyone, but I think it pretty much matches my recent break-up:
They had a hard struggle in the last period of their relationship. At first she saw the goods of life, just like him. But then she got stressed and bittered. He still treated her good, and with all the love, but she didn't let him live the (in an objective point of view pretty normal, hanging out with friends and also enjoying the good parts of life in not an excessive way) life he lived and she is way to serious (with work and/or study to relax a bit) to tolerate and participate in that. He's cool with her don't living that way, because he loves her, and even though he respects her and treats her in a loving way without being an asshole she was still putting the emphasis on the little things she doesn't agree to in the first place (while he still see the good things about them together, see: 'I see the sun rising, and all you see is its fall, fall, fall').
She has no self-reflection and forgets about the good things in the relationship and how nice and good he is to her (see: 'Take a look at yourself and realize, I've been good to you'). But sometimes his tolerance level is reached when she enlarges a little thing too much again, so he get's irritated and tries to let heer see what a fuzz she's making of nothing, but she doesn't accepts that and get's even more mad at him and he is sad about it because he didn't think it was worth fighting about in the first place and feels more hurt about the whole thing than her, while she started the stupid thing but he is still a little agitated and still thinks she is exaggerating (see the -sarcasmic-: 'Oh no! I didn't mean to say what I did say, all about lovers and how they should lay. That was never for me to say and say. Don't you see now how I pay..').
Then the moments that he doesn't conform to her point of view get more frequent (see: 'For all the times i never turned her way/away') and they decide to break up (while still loving eachother mutually but it doesn't work anymore) and she finds an other lover (see: 'And now she is there on someone else's arm') while he still loves her and that hurts him. Especially because he never saw the problem; she was always the one that got frustrated and irritated about the little things and he had to answer for that, so he is even more heart-broken about what could have been if she just relaxed more.. Now it's frustrating him because if she just saw how stubborn and without self-reflection she was earlier, it could have lasted longer. Now the other lover maybe will benefit of the after-relationship-eye-opener she had about her stressed, stubborn and strict point of view during their relationship because she took a good reflection afterwards.. And that hurts, a lot.
Ofcourse it's personal for everyone, but I think it pretty much matches my recent break-up:
They had a hard struggle in the last period of their relationship. At first she saw the goods of life, just like him. But then she got stressed and bittered. He still treated her good, and with all the love, but she didn't let him live the (in an objective point of view pretty normal, hanging out with friends and also enjoying the good parts of life in not an excessive way) life he lived and she is way to serious (with work and/or study to relax a bit) to tolerate and participate in that. He's cool with her don't living that way, because he loves her, and even though he respects her and treats her in a loving way without being an asshole she was still putting the emphasis on the little things she doesn't agree to in the first place (while he still see the good things about them together, see: 'I see the sun rising, and all you see is its fall, fall, fall').
She has no self-reflection and forgets about the good things in the relationship and how nice and good he is to her (see: 'Take a look at yourself and realize, I've been good to you'). But sometimes his tolerance level is reached when she enlarges a little thing too much again, so he get's irritated and tries to let heer see what a fuzz she's making of nothing, but she doesn't accepts that and get's even more mad at him and he is sad about it because he didn't think it was worth fighting about in the first place and feels more hurt about the whole thing than her, while she started the stupid thing but he is still a little agitated and still thinks she is exaggerating (see the -sarcasmic-: 'Oh no! I didn't mean to say what I did say, all about lovers and how they should lay. That was never for me to say and say. Don't you see now how I pay..').
Then the moments that he doesn't conform to her point of view get more frequent (see: 'For all the times i never turned her way/away') and they decide to break up (while still loving eachother mutually but it doesn't work anymore) and she finds an other lover (see: 'And now she is there on someone else's arm') while he still loves her and that hurts him. Especially because he never saw the problem; she was always the one that got frustrated and irritated about the little things and he had to answer for that, so he is even more heart-broken about what could have been if she just relaxed more.. Now it's frustrating him because if she just saw how stubborn and without self-reflection she was earlier, it could have lasted longer. Now the other lover maybe will benefit of the after-relationship-eye-opener she had about her stressed, stubborn and strict point of view during their relationship because she took a good reflection afterwards.. And that hurts, a lot.