I think it more about the ritual of finding a companion at a bar for a one night stand than the act itself. Trying to show self confidence, trying not to show fear (sweating), and letting instinct take over. It is not in the gutter as some might think. Breaking the ice, loosen her composure. She knows, he knows, she knows - eye contact and a shared thought. Drinking to build up a sort of dutch courage.
I think it more about the ritual of finding a companion at a bar for a one night stand than the act itself. Trying to show self confidence, trying not to show fear (sweating), and letting instinct take over. It is not in the gutter as some might think. Breaking the ice, loosen her composure. She knows, he knows, she knows - eye contact and a shared thought. Drinking to build up a sort of dutch courage.